Kim writes:

Subject: Working With Disabled Children In Sunday School

Here here!!!! As the mother of a disabled son (who is now 18) I applaud this ezine author. For years I have dealt with churches who were not willing to accept my son in their Sunday school classes, and eventually we just stopped going to church. I tried to educate some of the teachers, and even tried speaking to one pastor's wife, but I just couldn't get through to them. It seems there was no room for disabled children in the hearts of the teachers nor even the clergy.

This article does not only apply to churches, but to synagogues and other associations, like homeschool groups, as well.

It is time for those who worship God to truly be His people, and love as He commanded us to!

As for my son, we are now in a smaller fellowship of believers and there is no class to accommodate him, but he sits with my husband and I during the service. People are very understanding when my son gets a little noisy or fidgety, and they are generally kind and loving toward him. I believe that's all any parent really wants from their church fellowship - for their child to be accepted, even if it's only a warm smile sent their way.

And the parents need support too - even if only a kind word. In my experience, most churches are completely clueless and oblivious about this.

Your place of worship should feel like family. You should not have to stress about what to do with your child there or how people will react to them. This is a true mission field which is ripe for harvest, and I'm glad to see this author has given the issue some thought.

If you're in a church that doesn't accept your child, leave. Find another fellowship where you're whole family will be loved. Love is really what it's all about.