There are basically two types of love relationships:

- A relationship in which each one has his or her friends, work, independent lives, no obligation to do anything for the partner's parents and relatives and even freedom to sometimes have an affair with somebody else for a while.

- A relationship in which both the partners are always together, have common friends, even work together, are totally dependent on one another, are in constant contact with the partner's parents and relatives and their loyalty with their companion is absolute.

Many people believe that the first example is ideal, because this way each one has his or her own life and in parallel, also has a permanent companion. However, this independence is quite cold and the relationship with these characteristics is superficial. There is no real confidence between the couple and their love is also under circumstantial and not absolute.

Usually, couples with this kind of relationship don't stay together for too long.

On the other hand, couples who have a relationship like in the second example, are not happy with the interference of their relatives and feel suffocated many times. They lose contact with their friends, become too dependent on their partner, don't develop their own personality and don't do what they really want to do in their lives, but always tend to agree with their companion.

Usually couples that have this kind of relationship stay together forever, even if their love is not sufficient.

Which one of them is better?

None, of course, since both have many negative points.

You have to create a combination. You have to have your friends and personal life and care for your internal development, respect and care for your partner's parents and relatives in the same way that you care for your own, without letting them interfere in your marriage and daily life.

Be careful, because provisory relationships can ruin your life and make you regret it!

You need a serious and long-lasting relationship, with absolute confidence and loyalty. This is the only way you'll discover real happiness and keep it for life!