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Help for Very Depressed People-Facing Death
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Death is always unbearable, but it is worse when we loose someone we love very much, especially if this person is young. We cannot accept it.
The worse death is without any doubt the death of our own child. This is a pain we will never get rid of...
I experienced my aunt's pain when my dear cousin Efi died in a train accident, while she was only 18 years old...
I was pregnant, waiting for my unique son... How could I be sure that my baby would live? Live until he will grow old... What could guarantee me that? Observing my aunt crying without comfort I didn't know what to think, what to say...
Death appeared in my life very soon. When I was 15 years old, I suffered a very tragic car accident and the friend who was sitting next to me in the back seat of the car, died instantly. I was the worse victim after her, with a trauma in my head. We were 6 teens in the car: 3 in the front and 3 in the back. Everyone had traumas, except the driver and my boyfriend, who were on the left side of the car, because a truck crushed our car from the right side.
This was the first terrible experience of my life! I couldn't forgive God for my friend Marina's death! I became an atheist and very aggressive, whereas before I was comprehensive and calm.
However, when Efi died I didn't have the same negative attitude, especially because my mother-in-law died too in the same week, 3 days after Efi passed away! And everything happened when I was in the sixth month of my pregnancy...
My mother-in-law was an angel! My dear cousin was an angel too...
I understood that God existed and that nobody dies without reason, with the death of two people so close to me in the same week!
Many young people who lived near me died, after Marina. She was only the first one of a series...
The second young friend that died was Ellen de Fatima, the older sister of my friends. She had leukaemia. She was married and had two kids. My mother is her daughter's godmother. She and her husband were a very nice couple; they had a very happy family. They used to travel a lot with the kids, since they were babies... And they took many pictures of them...
However, the disease made Ellen bald. She lost her hair and her courage... After suffering from a lot of pain and going to the hospital and back several times, she died when she was 27 years old. Her older son was only 6 years old at the time and her daughter, only 4.
She died a few days before my wedding. She was in Brazil, while I had decided to live in Greece, so I learned about her death only a few days after my wedding because nobody wanted to upset me on that day...
Ellen's death was unbearable! Why did she have to die so young and abandon her kids and her husband? This was incomprehensible and unacceptable!
I can tell you many more stories like the ones I just started telling you, because the list of people who lived near me and died when they were still too young is very big.
The last young person who lived very near me but died unexpectedly was my husband, when our son was only 4 years old. So, I know very well what death means!
The story of my life, my studies and my experiences are closely related.
This is why I'm writing this article today, to give you my support in this sad period of your life.
I know exactly how you feel, but don't think that things will be this way forever. Time will pass and you'll discover that the meaning of life is not what you imagined before.
Life is a school that never ends. We live in order to learn many lessons, continuously, because we have to transform our psychic sphere, becoming more sensitive and human.
If you envy those who never experienced the heavy suffering through which you are passing now, you must understand that you are actually learning much more than them, so your position is better according to the meaning of life.
When my fried Marina died while she was only 22 years old, in the car accident, I became very rebellious and I lost my faith. However, when Efi died while she was only 18 years old, 3 days before my mother-in-law, I regained my faith, because I understood that life is not what we imagine it is and the reasons why someone has to die young may be for their benefit.
I understood that the human being is too ignorant and he doesn't know what is really good and what is bad.
After some time, when I learned how to interpret my dreams, I saw two dreams that explained the reason of my cousin's death and Ellen's death. The reason why Marina died could be deduced from what I already learned with the information I had.
Since the human being inherits a wild, violent and evil conscience, the meaning of life is to fight against the wild side until the human being dominates it and transforms it into a human part of his personality, like the tiny human conscience.
If someone is not able to fight against evil because they are too sensitive, they have to die early. This is a protection.
Of course, one has to be able to fight against the wild and evil of the world, but to be sensitive and weak in front of evil is to have a pure spirit, which is in fact noble.
So, there is no conclusion for this problem. There are only many thoughts and many feelings...
However, you can find relief and support in the messages the wise unconscious sends you in your dreams. The unconscious' wisdom is the best comfort you can have and it provides you the best and safest existent psychotherapy. You will discover a doctor inside your psychic sphere, who knows everything about you and the story of your life.
This is for sure the best help you can have in this moment, besides religiosity.
God really exists, and He is really wise and saintly, as many scientific proofs demonstrate to us and as confirmed by the wisdom of the unconscious.
You can trust the information you receive in your dreams when you learn how to interpret them correctly. This way, you'll have the company and guidance of the unconscious for your entire life and the depression you feel now will be transformed into a reason for your occupation with your dreams. This occupation will cure you and teach you many things you cannot imagine, giving you back the life and the disposition you lost.
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Article Submitted On: October 03, 2007
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