When someone doesn't say what he or she thinks and wants, the relationship is based on expectations. It usually happens when there is only a light-hearted relationship between two people and they do not have many conversations.

With the expectations, several fantasies lead both the parties to imagine several things about each other.

This imagination is very dangerous, because each one can completely distance him or herself from reality. However, the worse case is that when it happens, both the parties start making plans based on their expectations, without trying to understand reality as it really is...

Things only get worse with further suppositions and conclusions based on them.

What happens then? Suddenly, one of the two people involved decides to put an end to their expectation and do something to approach the desired person. However, he or she is not based in reality but in his or her own fantasies about the other person.

He or she makes several plans and continues supposing many things, so much so that he or she even thinks that these theories are facts. He or she forgets that these ideas are not real but are based on imagination.

When he or she comes to the point to finally do what he or she was planning to, the person discovers that the other person is totally different from what he or she had imagined them to be, and that their reactions are totally different from the ones expected.

What happens then? A big disappointment...

Things can be even worse though, when one of them decides to do something drastic to capture the desired person and pawns all one's energy into this plan, thinking that it is "perfect," even though it is based on the person's imagination...

Many disasters start this way and end up in tragedies.

However, how can someone be aware of reality as it is and learn about the person one loves before having the chance to live with them for some time?

There is a safe way one can have all the information one needs without having personal contact with the other person or without hiring a detective to follow them all the time: dream interpretation.

The unconscious that produces the dreams gives us specific information about the person we love and the information we receive is very clear.

Dreams about the person we love are the most important because love is very dangerous, since it is a very crazy feeling. When the person is possessed by desire and passion, they are hypnotized by love.

This is a condition that needs caution and many studies about reality.

The information one can have through dream interpretation is exactly what one needs in order to solve one's problems completely, by having a vision about the other person's real character and many other points of reality that have been ignored.