If your goal is to win your ex back, it is essential that you evoke the same emotions in your ex that you used to win them in the first place.

There are 10 tips to live by, if you're hoping to get your ex back by your side.

First of all, you need to get your ex to find you physically attractive. Dress nicely, work out, and keep an even keel. Knock your ex out with your good looks.

Be cordial when you run into your ex. Avoid begging them to take you back.

Be a shoulder for your ex to lean on, but avoid making a pest of yourself. Stay a little aloof to make him or her feel as if they need you.

Jump back into your daily life without delay. Give your ex time to see you don't need them to live life happily.

When you're at a party, let potential dates approach you. This will entice a rage in your ex and make them angry, and as a result will reignite their flame for you.

When talking to friends, speak positively about your former relationship. When your ex hears this, they will think fondly of you.

Do not belittle your ex's opinions. Don't dwell on your old relationship; move confidently into a new one.

Wear outfits your ex remembers you wearing during your relationship. This will make him or her think about what you once shared, and they may desire you again.

Take up a new activity you've wanted to do for a while. Your ex will find this intriguing.

Think positive. Your ex will notice and most definitely want you.