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Scot McKay - EzineArticles.com Expert Author
Scot McKay is an author and podcaster on the subject of dating, seduction and relationships. He lives in San Antonio, TX with his wife (and "proof-of-concept") Emily, three well-behaved kids and two hairless terriers that are decidedly NOT well-behaved.
Known for his monumental Virtuosity and The Leading Man programs, Scot and Emily are both available for private consultation.
Having been featured and/or consulted by over 135 media outlets worldwide, Scot is a frequent collaborator with other ... [More]
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- Do Women Really Know What They Want in a Man?
[Relationships:Dating] It's easy to assume that all of us know exactly what we want in a partner. But in the real world, we can often end up surprising even ourselves, can't we? Well women are certainly no more immune to that factor than we are as men.
- Should You Masturbate Before Going Out on a Date?
[Relationships:Sexuality] Maybe you've heard of the "loaded gun theory." Well should you really masturbate before going out on a hot date?
- The Media Has Lied to You About What the Opposite Sex is Attracted to
[Relationships:Dating] There's a lot of money to be made from helping millions of people feel even more insecure about how they look. Yet, many of the "self improvements" we chase after are even attractive to many of the people we hope to attract. So why do we blindly chase after being who the commercial media tells us we should be?
- Answering Questions Beautiful Women Ask - The Advanced Strategy
[Relationships:Dating] You've probably heard various strategies for answering difficult questions from women you are dating. Today I'm going to reveal the very best one of them to you.
- Speech Patterns of Those Without Social Skills (Part Two)
[Self-Improvement:Techniques] Here's the second article in a two-part series describing how those who lack social skill tend to blow it in conversations with others. Don't be that guy!
- Why Single Women Date Married Guys
[Relationships:Dating] Why would a single woman actually TARGET married men for dating? Here are five possible reasons why...
- Will My Girlfriend Ever Change? (Part Two)
[Relationships:Conflict] Last time we talked about some ways a guy really can't expect to change the woman in his life. But are there some OTHER areas where our influence can indeed be more powerful?
- Will My Girlfriend Ever Change? (Part One)
[Relationships:Conflict] We as guys like to think we can fix any situation. But when another human being's thoughts, habits and behaviors are involved that's not always possible.
- Dating Success - The Schleprock Factor
[Relationships:Dating] Remember Schleprock? He was the guy who bad luck followed everywhere. Here's how the "Schleprock Factor" can loom over your dating life...but only if you let it.
- How the Presume and Assume Factor Kills Relationships
[Relationships:Conflict] Well in the most simplistic terms, I'm giving you the secret to virtually eliminating bitterness from a relationship between two well-meaning people. And sure, I realize as much as you do that major breaches like infidelity, alcoholism, etc. cause bitterness. That's OBVIOUS.
- Speech Patterns of Those Without Social Skills (Part One)
[Relationships:Communication] A ton of guys have been writing in asking for some PRACTICAL info on how exactly to tighten up your social skills so that they're absolutely rock solid. Now I don't particularly think many of you out there are exactly Ted Kaczynski "Unabombers" in the making or anything. But let's face it, the MORE WE KNOW about how to consistently crush it in the "social dynamics" department, the better off we are...
- How to Arrange First Dates With a Woman
[Relationships:Dating] You've approached a woman you really like and got her number. Now, how do you make the first date happen?
- How to Get the Second Date With a Woman Every Time
[Relationships:Dating] Once you're on the all-important first date with a woman, how can you make sure the second date happens? Well, assuming you WANT that second date, here's how to have things go your way every time.
- "Safety First" When it Comes to Sexual Relationships - In a Completely Different Way
[Relationships:Sexuality] Safe sex is one thing. But what about CREATING SAFETY in a sexual relationship? That's a different story altogether.
- Five Things Women Want You to Know When Approaching Them
[Relationships:Dating] I've been spending quite a bit of time lately interviewing women about what it's like for them to interact with guys these days. I also have the distinct pleasure of hanging out with my main squeeze Emily every day-and reading emails sent to us by literally thousands of women on her list. Taking ALL OF THAT information from SO MANY WOMEN into consideration, I've pulled together some SHOCKING CONCLUSIONS regarding any "approach anxiety" you may be suffering from.
- You Don't Have to Be "Mr Perfect" in Order to Have a Great Woman in Your Life
[Relationships:Dating] Do you think you have to get everything 100% right all of the time in order to keep a woman interested? If so, then it's time to give yourself a much-needed break.
- The Day the Real Men Showed Up
[Relationships:Dating] Being a man is not only a total blast, it's IMPORTANT. And all the REAL WOMEN out there recognize that fact...intimately. Want to know what being a "real man" actually means to "real women"? Read on...
- Relating to Women - Six Examples of When Problems Are Not Your Fault
[Relationships:Conflict] Have you been conditioned to believe that because you're a man then all issues you have with women MUST be your fault? Let's change that way of thinking once and for all. After all, women are human beings too, which means they can't always be perfect either.
- What is a Masculine Role Model Supposed to Look Like?
[Health-and-Fitness:Mens-Issues] Recently I had the rare and highly sought-after chance to go over some market research done by MTV networks. In it, the state of the modern man was broken down into fine detail. Could it be true that we've really lost touch with what a REAL MAN looks like in today's society? Just in case, here is a reminder...
- Dating and Seduction - Are You on a "Losing Streak" With Women?
[Relationships:Dating] Are you in the midst of a serious "dry spell" with women? Here are the secrets to getting over it once and for all...
- Dating Tips For Guys - Six Major Sticking Points Solved
[Relationships:Dating] What are the top six ways that we as men tend to submarine our own chances with women...before we even approach them? Eliminate these half-dozen "limiting beliefs" with women and start living the life you deserve!
- Dating the Wrong Woman? Here's What Really Happens When You "Settle"
[Relationships:Dating] Are you often told you're "too picky" when it comes to women? Here's why being extra selective when it comes to who you date beats settling for someone you don't want...every time.
- Dating Dilemmas - Decoding Angry Messages From Women
[Relationships:Dating] Every one of us as guys has had a woman respond to us in frustration. Are these messages really to be taken at face value? Or could she be communicating something MUCH deeper about her level of attraction for you?
- Attracting Women - Two Neuter Beings Cannot Become Sexually Attracted
[Relationships:Dating] Let's face it, masculinity attracts femininity. That's the way it always has been, and things aren't changing any time soon. So how is it we as guys think that acting like a neuter creature is going to attract women?
- Do You Believe You Can Succeed With Women, Or Are You Lying to Yourself?
[Relationships:Dating] Lately I've been starting to earn the reputation for being the dating coach who takes guys from "good with women" to "great with women". Sure, David D. introduced me as that guy when I was on his interview series nearly two years ago, but these days it's really starting to take hold.
- The Leapfrog Effect - Get a Terrific Woman in Your Life, Find Greater Success Everywhere
[Relationships:Dating] Think that getting a great woman in your life would be the ultimate goal? What if I told you that was just the tip of the iceberg?
- Choosing the Right Woman - Do You Really Know What You Want?
[Relationships:Dating] When selecting a woman for dating and possibly a long-term relationship, do you know exactly what you're looking for? Better yet...do you know exactly what you DON'T want?
- Dating Tips For Guys - Why Women Harp on "Listening" So Much
[Relationships:Dating] "Why don't men ever LISTEN?" I think every guy has heard a woman or two exclaim that line in frustration a time or two...possibly even in direct conversation! Finally decode what women REALLY mean...
- The Flirting Lifestyle - "I Bet You Tell All the Girls That"
[Relationships:Dating] Most guys have a difficult time flirting with women, mostly due to fear of rejection. But what possibilities abound when flirting becomes more or a central part of your persona? Read on for a whole new perspective...
- When to Cancel a Date, and How to Do It
[Relationships:Dating] There's a lot of talk about how to get a date. But do you know how to cancel one...and when to do so?
- Is She Really Going Out With Him?
[Relationships:Dating] Women really, truly don't want a guy who is "prettier" than they are. They want something else. And it's not what YOU want, necessarily.
- Attracting Women - Can You Charm Her Too Much?
[Relationships:Dating] What if you became so charming to women that you actually had to tone things down some? Sound crazy? Here's how life looks when you've got what I call a "high quality problem"...
- How to Make Twitter Your Free Online Dating Site, And Why You Should
[Relationships:Dating] Here is some amazing insight that came about THIS MORNING during a coaching call with one of the guys who has put me to work for him. If you are into online dating at all (which you should be), you'll want to pay close attention.
- Have You Ever Dated "Double-Standard" Chick?
[Relationships:Dating] OK, if a woman wants to impose unreasonable standards of conduct on you as the man she's dating, you would think she would at least reciprocate in kind...wouldn't you? Then again, how is even she supposed to keep up with "unreasonable" standards? Here's what to watch out for, gentlemen.
- Understand How Women Think and Increase Your Dating Success
[Relationships:Dating] I firmly believe that some dating advice that carries the disclaimer "for entertainment purposes only" REALLY IS "for entertainment purposes only". What's more, some guys are perfectly okay with that. It's enough for them.
- Is the Woman You're Dating Seeing Other Men Also?
[Relationships:Dating] It's no secret that I strongly advocate dating several women at once. Life is way too short to be a "serial dater". You've got to learn quickly what it is you really want in a great woman, and how to evaluate whether a particular woman fits the parameters or not.
- Secrets to Flirting For Men
[Relationships:Dating] What do you think of when you hear the word "flirting"? Be honest. For years (make that decades) I used to equate the concept of flirting with making the kind of remarks and gestures toward women that would get you slapped for your efforts.
- Approaching Women - Is Her Liking You Back "Too Good to Be True"?
[Relationships:Dating] What is it that is keeping you from approaching beautiful women? Could it be that you automatically assume that she couldn't possibly like you back?
- Do Only Good Looking Guys Get Women?
[Relationships:Dating] Do looks really matter when it comes to attracting women? The truth may surprise you - and the reasons behind the truth may surprise you even more.
- How to Plan Perfect First Dates
[Relationships:Dating] Every guy wants to impress a woman on a first date. Here's how to do exactly that...without looking like you're trying too hard.
- Get Over Approach Anxiety, But Don't Leave Her With Departure Anxiety
[Relationships:Dating] Perhaps you've had to conquer approach anxiety when it comes to meeting women. But are you really getting the job done when you DO actually meet a woman? If you "fail to deploy", you could be leaving HER with "departure anxiety".
- Limiting Beliefs in Reverse - See Dating and Attraction From a Woman's Perspective and Succeed
[Relationships:Dating] While it's true not every woman who is your vision of female perfection will like you, it's equally true that SOME WILL. A lot. Perhaps even as much as YOU LIKE THEM. Can you believe that?
- The Top Ten Places on Earth to Take a Woman
[Relationships:Dating] Planning a trip with the woman in your life? Want some ideas for the best places to take her? Read on for the ten best in the world...
- Women Approaching Men - 5 Secrets For Getting Women to Notice You and Make the First Move
[Relationships:Dating] Want to get women to approach YOU first? Here are some sure-fire ways to make that happen.
- Approaching Women - Improve Your Phone and Text Game in One Easy Step
[Relationships:Dating] Once upon a time, there was a guy. Let's call him Dan. He worked for a major courier company, delivering parcels on the same route just about every day.
- Are You Still Getting Rejected by Average Women? This Could Be the Problem
[Relationships:Dating] Are you getting rejected by women over and over again, even though you think you have a lot to offer a great woman? The reasons why this is happening may surprise you...
- Put Your Limiting Beliefs Aside - How to Become Her Superman
[Relationships:Dating] The Beijing Olympics remind me that it was exactly four years ago when everything changed in my dating life. I remember the exact day.
- What Do Women Think About Approach Anxiety?
[Relationships:Dating] Have you ever wondered how women themselves view "approach anxiety"? If not, you're probably not alone. Most of us have been too shy to ask...literally.
- My Funniest Online Dating Horror Stories
[Relationships:Dating] Online dating can be a great way to meet MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex). Then again, not every date is going to go so well. At least you end up with some funny stories to tell. Here are my best.
- How to Succeed With Women - BE Murphy's Law
[Relationships:Dating] Most of us think of "Murphy's Law" as something that happens to us. It's especially easy to apply "Murphy's Law" to our lives with women, isn't it? Well, instead of running from the "law", it's time to go into "law enforcement" for a change...
- Are All the Women Teasing Us, Or What?
[Relationships:Dating] A common thread in many guys' minds is, "If women aren't really interested in sex, then why do they dress they way they do?" Today we're going to decode that whole concept once and for all...and the truth might surprise you.
- 7 Ways to Tell If You Are Settling For the Wrong Person
[Relationships:Dating] When you meet someone new, you tend to be stoked about it. But if you are thinking long-term, are you really kidding yourself? How EXACTLY can you tell when you've truly raised the bar to the point where "settling" is a thing of the past?
- Barely Legal - Older Guys Dating Teenagers?
[Relationships:Dating] How young is too young when it comes to older guys dating younger women? Here are a few solid ideas that make sense in the real world.
- Can You Get Just ONE Person to Be Attracted to You?
[Relationships:Dating] Have you ever had even ONE person take a romantic interest in you...ever? If not, you probably need direct coaching in order to change that ASAP. But if you have-at any point in history, even just once-this article is for you...
- Dating Tips For Guys - The Difference Between "Nice" and "Mr Nice Guy"
[Relationships:Dating] We as guys all know that being "too nice" is not the best way to attract women. But have we taken it all too far? Has the message been misunderstood?
- Who "Chooses" and Who "Chases" Men Or Women?
[Relationships:Dating] Who really has all the options in the dating world, men or women? The answers may surprise you.
- How to Succeed With the Most Attractive Women on Earth
[Relationships:Dating] Most of us start off with a real need for increasing our skill with women. Then we start seeing some success. But THEN...something happens that stops us dead in our tracks. How will YOU handle it?
- How the Latest Women's Birth Control Methods Affect Men
[Health-and-Fitness:Mens-Issues] Lot's of women are using The Patch and Nuva Ring as birth control methods these days. What should guys know about them, and--more importantly--how do they affect us?
- Do Women With Low Self-Esteem Actually Seek Out the Worst Guys Possible?
[Relationships:Dating] Could it actually be true that women who suffer from low self-esteem actually punish themselves by being with low-quality men? Find the answers herein...and also discover why you don't want to be the guy a woman like that settles for.
- What Do Dating And Sales Have In Common?
[Relationships:Dating] In order to become the man with options in his dating life, you've got to think like a millionaire salesperson. Here's why.
- Frustrated With Your Dating Life? Here's Why
[Relationships:Dating] There are only two types of single people. Those who are frustrated by their dating lives, and those who aren't. Discover the secrets to ending frustration right here...
- The Dating Disappearing Act - Did She Think She Wasn't Good Enough For You?
[Relationships:Dating] Every guy experiences the frustration of a woman simply dropping off the face of the Earth. Everything seemed to be going great, then you suddenly stop hearing from her. Here's a striking possibility as to what may have happened there.
- Dating Relationships - Should We Become Exclusive, Or Not?
[Relationships:Dating] Some fear exclusive relationships and avoid them like the plague. Others tend to jump into LTRs (long-term relationships) with the first person who shows interest. Stop the madness...whoever you are.
- Six Ways To Tell If She's Psycho
[Relationships:Dating] Are you rationalizing a woman's irrational behavior? Once and for all, here are a half dozen ways to tell if her behavior is decidedly erratic or even downright crazy.
- Dating Secrets - Why Women Love A Man With Courage
[Relationships:Dating] Women crave a man who is courageous. But is a woman's definition of what that means the same as a man's? Read on and find out...
- Dealing With Breakups - Ending Short-Term Relationships (Part Three Of Four)
[Relationships:Conflict] Unfortunately, some relationships break up very soon after they start. If you find that it's time to rethink your decision to date someone shortly after beginning to see each other, this is for you.
- Dealing With Breakups - When You're Just Not Feeling It Anymore (Part Two Of Four)
[Relationships:Conflict] Ideally, you break up with everyone you ever date except for one person, right? So inevitably, there will be times when split-ups occur with boyfriends or girlfriends who are perfectly good people--just not exactly right for you. Here's how to handle those scenarios.
- Dealing With Breakups - When Something Heinous Has Happened (Part One Of Four)
[Relationships:Conflict] How do you split up with a boyfriend or a girlfriend when he or she has violated your trust in some way? Find out exactly what to do when you've been done wrong.
- Online Dating - How To Use Instant Messaging To Your Advantage
[Relationships:Dating] Confused about whether or not to use IM with women you are meeting online? Here's the case for instant messaging and online dating being perfect together.
- The Best Way To Impress Your Vietnamese Date
[Relationships:Dating] Last night I got the kind of e-mail I particularly love to read: Someone else is succeeding at online dating more than ever before. This time, a guy wrote me attaching the profile of a particularly attractive hottie who happens to be Vietnamese. And wow, she seems full of life, energy, compassion and feminine charm-a nearly perfect combination out of which to craft a woman's personality, I'd say.
- Dealing With Breakups - Ending A Long-Term Relationship (Part Four Of Four)
[Relationships:Dating] Breaking up with someone you have been dating for quite some time is perhaps the most challenging task in the dating world. Here are some helpful tips to keep in mind so you'll never be at a loss for how to end a long term relationship.
- When She Says She Has A Boyfriend
[Relationships:Dating] You meet a woman, and she announces that she "has a boyfriend". Should you take that at face value or what?
- The "Big Four" Factors That Attract Women To A Certain Man
[Relationships:Dating] Want to know what it is that makes a particular guy so attractive to women? It's not his car, his looks, his bank account or ESPECIALLY how "nice" he is. Get the "Big Four" factors right instead, and watch your level of success with women skyrocket.
- How To Make Women Love You - Six Ways To Be Masculine
[Relationships:Dating] You know you've got to be masculine in order to attract the most feminine women. But what does that mean, exactly? Here are six ways to emanate masculinity--all in the manner that women are most attracted to.
- The Real Cure For Neediness, Clinginess And Manipulation
[Relationships:Dating] If you are serious about truly deserving what you want instead of settling for mediocrity, this article could be the most foundationally important you've ever read. Learn the true secret to effective social skills.
- Are You Getting Better With Women Despite Yourself?
[Relationships:Dating] As guys improve their skills with women, it's easy to think that every little bit learned is helping. But is it?
- Online Profile Narratives That Stand Out (Part Two Of Two)
[Relationships:Dating] People tend to write their online profile narratives as if they were grade school theme papers, don't they? Most people, if normal, aren't going to be "attracted" to that sort of thing. Here's a real solution to the problem.
- Online Profile Narratives That Stand Out (Part One Of Two)
[Relationships:Dating] Want to break out of the trap of having a boring, uninspiring online dating profile? Here's an easy strategy you can begin using right now.
- The User's Guide To Valentine's Day
[Home-and-Family:Holidays] It's time to acknowledge that Valentine's Day is upon us. Allow me to surprise you with a take on the whole thing that you might find refreshingly "fair and balanced"...especially if you are dating more than one woman at once.
- Should You 'Fake It 'Til You Make It' With Women?
[Relationships:Dating] Some dating advice for men recommends "faking it 'til you make it" when it comes impressing women. The inherent problem there is that women can sense a lack of authenticity a mile away. Don't be that guy...
- Online Dating - The 'Don't Bother' Factor
[Relationships:Dating] If you can't understand why people would avoid someone who puts "don't bother" statements in his or her profile, then...um...don't bother. Here's a humorous look at one of the most vivid pointers to an obnoxious personality there is in the online dating world.
- Long Distance Dating - Some Common Sense Advice
[Relationships:Dating] Entering into a long-distance dating relationship is risky business. Keeping a level head and exercising common sense are absolute prerequisites or things are likely not to end up as planned. How much time you spend figuring all of that out is up to you, but far too many couples live in a fantasy-driven delusion driven by desperation. How can two rational people let this happen? Get ready to find out.
- Pickup And Seduction - Embedded Wingwomen
[Relationships:Dating] You may already know the benefits of having a wingwoman along when it comes time to meet women in a bar or club. What if you could have that luxury built in to every date you go on--and yes, we're talking about one-on-one Day Two meetings here.
- Online Dating - The Red Frame Of Death
[Relationships:Dating] Certain online dating sites have their ways of helping you spend more money with them. In order to succeed online, however, it's imperative to know where good sense drops off and pure marketing savvy takes over. Here's a key example.
- Six Reasons Guys Stay With The Wrong Woman Instead Of Breaking Up
[Relationships:Dating] It's shockingly easy to end up in a relationship with the WRONG woman. So why can it be so hard to hit the "eject" button and GET OUT? Here is a practical list of half a dozen possible reasons.
- Best First Date Idea For Wintertime
[Relationships:Dating] Stuck for first date ideas when it's cold outside? Here is the best idea I've seen in a long time...along with some key first date strategy while we're at it.
- Undo A Woman's Bra Without Hassles Or Problems
[Relationships:Sexuality] The vast majority of men are intimidated by the task of taking off a woman's bra. But undoing a bra is actually simple--even through her clothes. You can do it instantly...and with one hand.
- Thou Shalt Not Hold Her Purse For Her
[Relationships:Dating] Ever have a woman ask you to "hold her purse" while she does something? As innocuous as this request may seem, you shouldn't give in to it. Here's why.
- Would James Bond Ever Land In The "Just Be Friends" Zone?
[Relationships:Dating] Some guys get all the luck. My next-door neighbor's actual license tag is "007 JBF". So let's get to the point.
- She Thinks I Hung The Moon
[Relationships:Dating] Looking for a quick, inexpensive and utterly simple way to add serious panache to your bachelor lair? How about a moonlit evening...in your bedroom?
- Effective Online Dating Profile Pictures - A Surefire Secret
[Relationships:Dating] Are you at a loss when it comes to getting your online dating pictures right? Here's a very simple strategy for having highly effective profile photos...every time.
- Get What You Want Without Feeling Selfish
[Relationships:Dating] I gave serious thought to naming this week's bit "The Selfish Man's Guide To Success With Women". After all, that's really a fitting title.
- Your Attitude Toward Women - How's It Doing Lately?
[Relationships:Dating] What kind of women do you believe are out there? Chances are those very women are the ones you are going to meet. Make sure you're well informed before drawing conclusions, because a shocking truth awaits.
- Average Guy With A Super Hottie - 6 Ways To Tell If You're Him
[Relationships:Dating] All too often in the world of dating advice we focus on how to fix what's going wrong. As a change of pace this time around, let's consider how life looks through the eyes of a guy who is doing something RIGHT.
- Understand The Opposite Sex - For Real
[Relationships:Dating] Think men and women can't possibly figure each other out? It's time to start thinking differently... and the shift is a crucial one to make if you want to experience a wildly successful dating life.
- Pickup And Seduction - What's The Difference?
[Relationships:Dating] What is the difference between "pickup" and "seduction"? And more importantly, is that really all there is to getting better with women?
- Stop Being Manipulated By People
[Self-Improvement:Techniques] You learned the "Golden Rule" when you were a kid (we hope). Most people NEVER DISCOVER its logical counterpart. You are about to do exactly that.
- Pickup And Seduction - Hide The Axes And Chainsaws
[Relationships:Dating] It's easy for a guy to become entirely fascinated by the concept of becoming a pickup artist. The initial curiosity is, of course, whether or not a guy actually can "pull" women with the ease and fantastically mind-blowing results he's told is possible.
- When It Comes To Dating, Which "Experience" Are You?
[Relationships:Dating] You probably know what your "type" is. That's all good. But what "type" are you? The answer to this question and how you deal with it is all-important when it comes to creating attraction.
- That "Talk To Children" Voice Some Guys Use To Ruin Their Chances With Women
[Relationships:Dating] Here's at least one case where everything you've ever learned about body language and rapport just might be WRONG... I was visiting earlier today with yet another new friend of mine who will soon be a part of the Virtuosity series.
- Is The Opposite Gender "The Enemy"?
[Relationships:Dating] So are we making love or war? You decide. With six billion other people sharing the planet with the relatively insignificant number of us who are reading this article, you would think that most of us would naturally intuit that men and women were designed to get along with each other.
- Blind Dates - Don't Be Left In The Dark
[Relationships:Dating] When was the last time you went on a blind date? If you are into online dating at all, you are likely going on blind dates all the time, really. Find out how our brains play tricks on us on blind dates, and-importantly-how you can clarify your vision of what exactly is going on.
- Clouded By Beauty-Vision
[Relationships:Dating] We as guys love beautiful women. There's nothing wrong with that. But why is it that so many of the hottest women tend to fall short of being the "whole package" in terms of defining the greatest women overall? Brace yourself, gentlemen. We may have done our part in creating this problem for ourselves.
- The Password Test - Are You Man Enough To Get Past It?
[Relationships:Dating] A woman wants to find out what the guy she's with is all about. Don't think for a second that she's going to come right out and ask. This article shares with you the ingenious strategy she's more likely to use. Will you control the board, or she go over to Dick Martin instead?
- The Bachelor's Guide To Setting Up His Place
[Relationships:Dating] If you are a single man in the dating world, having your place set up appropriately is absolutely imperative. Listen up and discover how to welcome your dates into your reality with style.
- Meeting Women - Does Failure To Deploy Hurt More Than Her Potential Rejection
[Relationships:Dating] What could possibly be worse than getting rejected by a woman? How about getting rejected by yourself?
- The Introvert's Guide To Success At Bars And Clubs
[Relationships:Dating] Do you think that you have to have a larger-than-life personality to get attention from women in clubs? The introverts guide to being "alpha" when out on the town.
- The Most Overlooked Night Time Pickup Strategy
[Relationships:Dating] You've heard just about every take on how to perform pickup at bars and clubs...except this one. I've been ranting for two podcasts in a row about how bars & clubs are overrated places to meet MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex).
- When You ARE A Man, You Don't Have To ACT
[Health-and-Fitness:Mens-Issues] As men we hear a lot of talk about all the tips and tricks we need to learn in order to attract women. That outer game stuff may work-but only to charm women we've already succeeded in attracting. Want to understand the difference? Read on...
- Top Ten Phrases That Mean Your Date Really, Really Likes You
[Relationships:Dating] How do you rate when it comes to reading your date's interest level in you? Do you have the confidence to recognize when you've triggered strong attraction?
- Double-Barreled Dating Disaster
[Relationships:Dating] Should a man be a "bad boy" or a "nice guy"? How about neither...let alone BOTH.
- Gold Digging 101
[Relationships:Dating] Women who look to a man to provide the "Good Life" are often called "gold diggers". Is this fair? Dating coach Scot McKay has a whole new spin on this intriguing but potentially expensive subject.
- I'm Bringing Sexy Back
[Relationships:Dating] Can you describe the difference between "sexy" and "slutty?" The distinction is a very real one, and how you perceive it can have a dramatic impact on the quality of your relationships.
- Worse Than 'Just Be Friends' - 'The Harmless Zone'
[Relationships:Dating] What's worse than being given the dreaded 'Just Be Friends' talk? Dating coach Scot McKay says it's none other than 'The Harmless Zone'. Find out why...
- Insecure Guy + Desperate Woman = Successful Date?
[Relationships:Dating] What happens when all the advice you've ever received about how to attract the opposite sex gets ignored? Quite possibly the unexpected. Find out from dating coach Scot McKay why dating "success" can't be measured as simplistically as you might have thought.
- Dating Success- Why The Rich Get Richer
[Relationships:Dating] It's a well-known financial principle that "the rich get richer". But did you know that the same principle holds true in the dating world? Join dating coach Scot McKay for "Millionaire Training".
- Dating Success - Doubt In The Face Of Belief
[Relationships:Dating] We are naturally inspired by stories of belief in the face of doubt. But how does that inspiration transfer to our attitudes when it comes to attracting and keeping women? Scot McKay of X & Y explains how we actually trick OURSELVES into dating frustration... all unnecessarily. Learn the secret found in this article and WIN.
- A Simple Exercise For Eliminating Fear Of Rejection By The Opposite Sex
[Relationships:Dating] Based on what you understand to be your own flaws and weaknesses, you look around you and habitually consider those whom you find most attractive "out of your league". Learn to consider things from the perspective of any among the six billion other people out there...and brace yourself for MASSIVE life change. Scot McKay of X & Y Communications shows you the secret.
- I Don't Love You Anymore, Therefore You Must Be A Cheater
[Relationships:Dating] About two years ago Billy Bob went to a bar, hopefully to meet some women. After throwing the proverbial "spaghetti against the wall" to see what "stuck", lo and behold he got a woman named
- First Dates: I Gotta Have More Cowbell
[Relationships:Dating] Why don't people bring their "A Game" on first dates?
- Getting Beat By A Girl
[Relationships:Dating] Why is it that the vast majority of men are afraid to approach women they are attracted to? Maybe the truth is that guys aren't afraid of the women themselves, but rather of a much more primal, instinctual risk that is involved...
- The Myths Regarding Expensive Dating
[Relationships:Dating] Who says you have to spend a lot of money in order to get a lot out of your dating life? Forget everything you've ever been brainwashed into believing regarding the importance of spending lots of money on dates.
- I Have A Finely Tuned "Fluff" Detector
[Relationships:Dating] Which is more amazing? The lame lines that people in the dating world serve up to each other or the fact that there are those out there who actually BELIEVE them?
- Having Dating Options And Exercising Them
[Relationships:Dating] Once you find yourself with options regarding who you can date, it's important to know how to manage your dating life.
Unless you been popular with the opposite sex your entire life, today's topic is uncharted territory for you. Although just about anyone who is highly eligible can struggle with what we are about to talk about, it's those who have most recently made changes in their lives resulting in increased popularity who are most confounded by it.
- Dating Wake Up Calls
[Relationships:Dating] It's amazing what some people will put up with in their quest to earn the attraction of someone they are infatuated with. Fortunately, you don't have to be one of them. Actually, you don't have to be EITHER of them.
- But I'm 'Average,' How Can I Possibly Deserve The Partner Of My Dreams?
[Relationships:Dating] How does the "average" person ever stand a chance of attracting and keeping the most amazing person he or she has ever met?
Generally speaking I am blessed to receive emails on a daily basis from readers and listeners expressing dramatic life change. I love to hear from people who are refusing to settle and therefore deserving what they want more and more every day. I truly live for messages like those these days. It inspires me to know that Emily and I are making a difference.
- The Most Critical Thirty Minutes In Dating
[Relationships:Dating] Old movies have a lot to teach us about how to spark attraction. One of the best lessons is about the most important half-hour there is in the dating world.
- Is Your Ex Still Controlling You - Part Two
[Relationships:Dating] The relationship is OVER, yet your ex somehow enjoys some degree of control over your life. If this describes you-or you even suspect it does-learn how to recognize the symptoms and BREAK FREE as Scot McKay talks about both the direct and subtle ways your ex can stay in control. (part two of two)
- Is Your Ex Still Controlling You - Part One
[Relationships:Dating] The relationship is OVER, yet your ex somehow enjoys some degree of control over your life. If this describes you-or you even suspect it does--learn how to recognize the symptoms and BREAK FREE as Scot McKay talks about both the direct and subtle ways your ex can stay in control. (part one of two)
- Sexually Focused Men And The Objects Of Their Non-Affection
[Relationships:Dating] So why is it that the guys who want sex the most seem to have the least fulfilling sex lives? Find out in today's article from Scot McKay!
- Screening Online Dating Profile Narratives
[Relationships:Dating] One of the most important skills for anyone who wants to be successful at online dating is screening profile narratives. What are the short cuts to separating the good ones from...well...all the rest? Online dating strategist Scot McKay tells all.
- Why Most Self-Help Schemes Will FAIL
[Self-Improvement:Goal-Setting] This year millions of us will make New Years resolutions and embark upon some kind of self-help plan. Most of us will FAIL. If your quest is to become better with the opposite sex, here's the #1 pitfall to watch out for. HINT: It's not just about will power.
- Nice Guys vs Good Men
[Relationships:Dating] "Nice Guys" always seem to end up in the "Just Be Friends" sandbox when it comes to attracting women. That's because what a woman truly wants is a GOOD MAN.
- How To Screen Online Profile Pictures
[Relationships:Dating] One of the most basic skills tied to successful online dating is learning how to screen the photos on prospective dates' profiles. Here's a crash course from Scot McKay at X & Y Communications.
- "No Games"... Meaning What Exactly?
[Relationships:Dating] We all have encountered the phrase "No Games" time and time again when browsing online dating profiles. But what does that MEAN?
- Online Dating: Should I Fly Out To Meet This Person Or What?
[Relationships:Dating] If you tend to wander away from your local metro area when searching online dating sites, it's all but inevitable that you will end up wanting to meet someone who lives far away. Here's what to keep in mind when that happens...
- Three Secrets To Long-Term Relationship Success
[Relationships:Dating] Scot and Emily are getting married this week. In honor of the occasion, Scot remembers a key message from his brother's wedding and looks forward to the future.
- The Ultimate Excuse For Dating Failure (Part Three Of Three)
[Relationships:Dating] Of all the excuses people give for not dating, this one is the most diabolical of them all.
- Top 10 Excuses People Make For Dating Failure (Part Two)
[Relationships:Dating] The second part of Scot McKay's discussion of why some single adults give up on dating altogether.
- Top 10 Excuses People Make For Dating Failure (Part One)
[Relationships:Dating] Some people give up on dating before they even give it a fair shot. We expose some of the excuses single adults tend to give for throwing in the towel on dating.
- When To Run Away 101
[Relationships:Dating] It's all too easy to get INTO a relationship with the wrong person...and not always so easy to get OUT. Dating Strategist Scot McKay shows you the warning signs of when to RUN AWAY!
- Those USAF Thunderbird Pilots Must Get All The Women - Well, Except One Of Them
[News-and-Society:Pure-Opinion] Who says fighter pilots get all the women?
- Hilarious Lines From Online Dating Profiles
[Relationships:Dating] Online profiles are not only useful for helping find someone to date, they can be a great source of comedy material! Scot McKay shares the funniest lines from three years of online dating travels.
- Signs Your Date Is Married
[Relationships:Dating] Those who are in the dating pool shouldn't have to be bothered with trying to figure out whether prospective dates are married or not. Unfortunately, however, such is a fact of life. Dating coach Scot McKay shows you how to navigate the minefield.
- Real Men Don't Plan Weddings
[News-and-Society] It's not that we don't want to get married. It's just that blasted wedding...
- Creeping Someone Out 101 (Part Two)
[Relationships:Dating] Most of us have had the uncomfortable experience of being creeped out on a date. But what if we’re the ones not getting second dates? Maybe it’s time for a reality check to make sure we’re not the creepy ones…
- Creeping Someone Out 101 (Part One Of Two)
[Relationships:Dating] Most of us have had the uncomfortable experience of being creeped out on a date. But what if we're the ones not getting second dates? Maybe it's time for a reality check to make sure we're not the creepy ones.
- Find Love In Six Months Or We'll Give You More Of The Same
[Relationships:Dating] Join a certain online dating service, languish dateless for six months, and they'll be happy to give you another six months of the same for free. Am I missing something? Yes - logic!
- Why Pick-Up Artists Can't Seduce ALL The Women
[Relationships:Dating] A lot of guys fantasize about being a "pick up artist". But there's a much better way to earn the right to attract ANY woman you choose.
- How To Meet Someone At The Grocery Store
[Relationships:Dating] "You know, it's dangerous for you to be here in the frozen food section. You could melt all this stuff."
- How Men And Women Try To Trick Each Other
[Relationships:Dating] Can men and women learn to attract and keep each other without having to trick one another into it?
- Motherhood Is Hot
[Relationships:Dating] Moms have got it going on. And you're about to find out why-
- The Language Of Pet Names
[Relationships:Dating] Just for fun this week, we are reprinting the very first X & Y Communications newsletter ever produced. This is what started it all ... Enjoy!
- How Do You Know When It's Time To Get Married?
[Relationships:Dating] I mean, how do you KNOW you know what you NEED to know in order to know, you know?
- Am I "Being Shallow", Or Am I Just Not "Settling"?
[Relationships:Dating] If I refuse to settle for anyone less that the woman of my dreams, what's so wrong with that?
- I'm Not Ken And She's Not Barbie...Thank God
[Relationships:Dating] The media loves to tell us who we’re supposed to be attracted to, doesn’t it? So what if we are honest with ourselves in admitting we are attracted to someone completely different? And can we be content with being the greatest version of ourselves we can be so as to attract who we want?
- The Age Gap—Dating Someone Much Younger
[Relationships:Dating] A lot of men (and many women) dream of dating someone who is much younger than they are. Is doing so really all that it’s cracked up to be? Dating a younger person can very easily become a case of being careful what you wish for, because you just might get it! Dating coach and author Scot McKay presents an alternative that few ever consider...
- What She Really Means When She Says, "I Want A Man To Protect Me"
[Relationships:Dating] Women often talk about wanting a man who can "protect them". What they really mean when they say this might surprise most men.
- Approaching Women: Making It Happen…The RIGHT Way, For A Change
[Relationships:Dating] Many men have a hard time approaching women. Find out how both men and women can make things a lot easier on themselves…and each other.
- It May SEEM Like Every Man In The World Can Approach Women, But Most CAN'T
[Relationships:Dating] Many women believe that most if not all men will freely approach them if they want to meet them. Most guys have a dark secret… it’s not always that easy.
- Approaching Women - The Simple Event That Changed My Life
[Relationships:Dating] It was a perfectly normal Saturday afternoon. I was going to visit my girlfriend later in the day, but until then it was time to run the usual slate of typical, mundane errands. Even though I was in a relationship at the time, I had learned from my research on men and women that 'style' was important-so I had some nice jeans and a button down shirt on.
- Infidels And The Cheaters Who Love Them
[Relationships:Affairs] Learn all about the predictably thoughtless mechanics of cheating, and the equally predictable results. Ironically, cheaters tend get what they deserve instead of deserving what they want. Find out why.
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