Five simple words for you:  You can stop a divorce.  Period.  Remember them.  If you're worried about your marriage, you need to know that you can save it from death in a courtroom.  Don't underestimate your power to save your marriage.

That might seem ridiculous to you at the moment.  You had a vision for a certain kind of marriage and things just haven't worked out.  The situation is bleak.  It's depressing.  You can feel things sliding away toward divorce and the whole process is exhausting.  It just feels impossible.

It isn't.  You can stop a divorce.  Yes, you.  Not you and your spouse--you. 

Believe it or not, people make the decision to save a marriage every day and many of them are successful.  That's true even when only one spouse seems interested in saving the marriage.  The world is full of proof that you can save your marriage.  There are so many people out there who are living in great, solid, happy marriages who were once in the exact same place you are right now.

If you want to stop your divorce, you have a choice to make.  You can either let your marriage (and divorce) happen to you or you can stand up and take action to preserve what you know to be an important and meaningful relationship with so much potential.  If you choose to take that action and to follow a good blueprint to rebuilding your marriage, you can stop your divorce.  It's really that simple.

It might seem like a longshot right now, but you really need to understand that important truth, encapsulated in five words:  You can stop a divorce.