Can you really know for sure if he loves you? How can you tell the difference between love and infatuation? If he says the words, is it really true? So many uncertainties are floating through your head. But you better be sure that he really loves you, or you might be heading for a broken heart. Here are the ways that a man proves that he loves you.
He says I Love You
These are not easy words for a man to utter. They leave him very vulnerable, which is not a comfortable situation for him. If he says it in the restaurant, whispers it in the movie theater, and shouts it when you're driving through the countryside, you better believe he really means it. But beware: If the only time you hear it is during "the act" or, worse yet, to entice you through the last step of submission, then don't take it to the bank. He may not know or care about the difference between real love and physical lust.
His actions speak louder than words
Is he there to support you through the hard times? Is he there to show his pride in you in your moments of triumph? Does he ask about your day and comfort you when you need it? Does he put you first? Does he take your side even when you're wrong? Does he go out of his way to keep in touch or give you little notes and gifts? Does he always have a big and sincere smile for you? Does he carry your picture or keep one where he sees it every day. If it's mostly Yes, then this guy is really into you. If he doesn't know he loves you yet, he will.
He lets you be you
He admires your independence and knows that you have your own life too. He understands that you weren't born on the day he met you. He doesn't try to make you over or change your ways. He doesn't mind when spend a day with your family or friends. He likes you in heels and a sexy skirt, and he likes you in jeans and a tank top too. He jokes about your fuzzy pink slippers, but mostly, he loves you just the way you are.
It's you, only you, and always you
If you fill up his life and he just can't get enough of you, then you own his heart. If he goes out with nobody but you (officially or unofficially) that's your man. If he suffers when you're away and calls you everyday, relax and enjoy basking in the warmth of his love.
Look at what your man is telling you without speaking. Just look around and observe him, and listen to your intuition. If he is giving you these signs, then he loves you, whether he knows it or not.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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