Tired of spending lonely nights online looking at pictures? You know the ones. Why not get a real hot woman and put down the computer. At least put it down for a little while.

Getting the sex you want does not have to be that hard. You may be making the below mistakes and it is keeping you from enjoying all the sex you want to have.

1. Lack of Confidence. You dont' feel comfortable approaching women. This makes it difficult to get to know any woman. Even at a club you are uncomfortable approaching a woman.

When you do get up the confidence to approach a woman, you don't know what to say. Another problem is that you can't handle rejection.

All this is playing in your mind when you see this woman on the street so it is no wonder that can't approach a woman.

2. Comparing Yourself To Others. Another reason your confidence may be suffering is that you are comparing yourself to other people. Maybe it is your best friend that is so good with the ladies. Maybe it is some movie star that seems to have it so easy. Whoever it is you continue to compare yourself to other people

This continues to lower your confidence because every time they have success, you see yourself as a loser. This is a downward spiral that will continue to hurt you.

3. Not Being Prepared. So you finally get up the courage to approach a woman. But just before you go to talk to her you realize that you don't have a pen or cell phone with you. You are unprepared. This will keep you from talking to this woman.

Another missed opportunity. Another situation where your confidence is lowered. Just when you finally get the courage, failure to launch.

4. Rushing. So you go talk to your friends, watch all the TV shows and you even buy the right books. Now that you know it all you rush right out into a new world to get all those hot women.

The first 4 woman that you talk to you use all the information that you got from your friends, TV and books. And what happens? Rejection. Now your confidence is lower again and you are more frustrated that ever because all the advice doesn't work.

5. Looking In The Wrong Places. Too many times guys think that if they just go where there are more women then men that they will have success. It is that old supply and demand theory. It sounds good, but I will tell you why it does not work

This doesn't work because not all the places where you go will the women be ready to meet someone. There are going to be more women then men at a daycare, but that doesn't mean that you should wait around to meet a woman there.

Find out where the places are that women are looking to meet men and go there.

You don't have to keep spending your nights alone with you and the computer. Get the information that you need to correct these mistakes and you will have all the women that you want.