How can I make my Ex want me back?

Understanding why women break up with men is vitally important to you if you're trying to get your Ex to love you again. If you want to fix your breakup then you need to get inside your woman's head and really find out what makes her tick. For most men, understanding how women think is monumentally difficult but if you take a step back and consider one simple principle then you might just be able to put some of the puzzle together.

Women don't say what they really mean

Lets take an extreme but very common example to illustrate this. Lets say that you've cheated on your wife. I don't want to go into why you did it but you didn't do it because you've stopped loving your wife. Quite the opposite in fact. You've probably lost something from the relationship and you've been trying to get it back. Anyway your wife finds out.

Because your wife has found out about your affair she's now breaking up with you and what reasons does she give?

• "I can't trust you anymore"
• "You've been unfaithful to me"
• "You're dirty"

There are probably a lot more too but none of them are the real reason.

What women want in a marriage

So if they aren't saying what they mean what exactly are they saying? There are plenty of examples of people fixing breakups and getting back with each other after the man has cheated or the woman has had an affair for that matter. That can't be the root cause of the breakup so what is she really saying to you? If you can understand this then there is hope to save your marriage.

Women want to be appreciated

Most of the reasons that women give you for walking out boil down to one thing in the end. They no longer feel that you appreciate them and what they do for you. In the same way that you want to feel admired as a strong provider by your spouse, she wants to feel that she's appreciated for what she is and what she does for you. If you've stopped doing this then this is most likely the cause of your breakup.

If you want to get your Ex back or stop her breaking up with you then you first have to really understand the reasons why women breakup with men. Then you must start afresh and show her that you do appreciate and love everything that she does. Just saying this isn't enough by the way, you have to show her by your actions and you have to do it slowly over a period of time before the love will come back. Make a plan, stick to it and get your ex back again.