It seems odd that all those girls who talk to you and say that they want to find themselves a really nice guy suddenly end up with a jerk while you, the nice guy, sit at home still single and wondering what you've done wrong. And yet this situation is increasingly common.

So why do nice guys finish last? The most common errors that a nice guy makes when persuing someone that they really like are:

- putting the woman up on a pedestal, making her seem superhuman when she's not
- being afraid to express their natural sexuality - often nice guys become almost asexual around the woman, which leads her to assume you don't desire her
- suppressing their natural personality in order to try and become the guy that they think the woman wants

Thankfully, these are all easily solvable errors.

How To Get A Girl To Love You

Undoubtedly the most important thing is to be yourself. Don't lose yourself and pretend to be someone that you're not, because chances are that the reason you first got talking to that girl was because she was interested in you.

Secondly, the woman is not superhuman. She is just another fish in the sea. The reason this mindset is important is so that you don't become a doormat - i.e. you don't let her get away with so much that she walks all over you. Because if you let her, she will, and she'll soon become disinterested and find someone else.

Finally, don't be afraid to be a male. That is, don't be afraid to flirt, to have your sexuality on display. A common misconception amongst nice guys is that sex isn't that important to nice girls. Well, it is, just as much as it is to any human being.