When you meet a man for the first time and you have a great time it seems natural to expect him to call you. He took your number and said he'd call but he didn't. Three days went by and still no call. Why didn't he call, you wonder. This article will explain some very important things about men and calling so read it carefully.

First of all, if you are expecting him to call you immediately or the following day, you should know that men are just as uncertain as you are about the calling rules and the calling game. The guy you've just met may be trying to figure out a best time to call you. A lot of guys don't know when it is appropriate to call a woman after a first date. They wonder just like you do whether you liked him in return.

If he doesn't call right away he is probably trying to figure out when it is the perfect time to call you. He doesn't want to seem needy, clingy or too impatient.

Many men e-mail me and ask me that same question. When should I call her after our first date?

I always suggest that if you like the girl, give her a call. Don't be shy. If she likes you she will be happy that you called.

If you met him on Friday night, don't expect him to call you until Monday as a rule. He may already have plans for the weekend, or even if he doesn't he still doesn't want you to think that he is sitting around doing nothing. He wants to seem busy. If it has been three days or more, then you've got a bigger problem.