An old Spanish proverb states; "Where there is love, there is pain." And when it comes to attracting women many of you guys out there already know this.

Only instead of feeling the pain of Love you have chosen to feel the pain of potential love loss by continuing to look for ways to attract women while at the same time somehow avoid the pain that comes when a woman isn't interested in you at that moment.

At least, this is what this article is going to be about so if you are reading this and aren't a man who currently finds himself avoiding rejection from women and at the same time becoming frustrated because avoiding rejection doesn't help you attract women, then know that this article isn't for you.

However, if you are that guy, let me ask you, at what point will you decide to take control of your ability to attract women by learning how to grow through the pain of rejection instead of simply avoiding it.

Especially, when you have already begun to realize now that the potential for "emotional pain" is real no matter what you try and do.

As you already have discovered the pain of avoiding rejection from women is just as painful as having a woman actually reject you.

Yet, the more you find yourself facing the possibility of rejection from the women that you are attracted to the easier it can become to actually accept the fact that a particular woman isn't attracted to you.

On the other hand, the more you find yourself avoiding rejection from women the weaker you become and the more difficult it can become to continue moving away from the possibility of a woman actually be attracted to you, which is what you are unfortunately doing every time you don't approach a woman or take the steps necessary to know for certain if she is attracted to you or at the very least willing to give you what you want.

Hopefully, you have begun to realize that rejection and attraction go hand in hand and it is difficult to avoid one without also avoiding the other, because in the end the only way you can truly get what you want from a woman is if you are willing to take a chance.