So your relationship ended recently, and your ex now wants you back. You may think that this is great news, but you should really do a little thinking before you take him/her back. There had to be some form of dysfunction in your relationship, or else it would not have gone to the point of a break up. And you should really evaluate your past relationship prior to committing to resuming your relationship with your ex.

Here are a few issues that you should evaluate prior to jumping back into the relationship.

1) Remember that your previous relationship ended for a reason. Do not get your hopes up right away, and be ready to admit that it is really over and move on.

2) Avoid on-and-off relationships. These type of relationships may have a lot of passion, but also carry a lot of heart ache and baggage. It would be in your best interest to end this type of relationship[ and look for someone who is more reliable.

3) Do not let your ex take advantage of you. Men are notorious for leading the woman to believe that the relationship will continue if she is willing to continue a sexual relationship. A woman body is the best weapon that she has when it comes to controlling a relationship. Never make let your ex take advantage of you in this way.

4) Never take your ex back if they are still involved with another partner. They may be leading you on and are looking for a relationship with multiple partners. If they are not willing to break their other relationship off, then they have no business getting back with you.

These are some good issues that you can evaluate to see if your ex is truly right for you and if it is in your best interest to rekindle your relationship with your ex.