Many people have heard of pick up artists - they are the guys that can just walk into a bar or club and within just a few minutes have a woman hanging on his every word. Now we all would love to have this ability and we can. If you follow some simple steps and with a lot of practice you will be able to walk into any situation and start getting the attention you desire from the ladies.

Several years ago I knew a guy that was in all senses of the word a pick up artist. I went to the local bar with him a few times and just watched what he did. The first thing I noticed was his attitude. He did not give the women the impression he was fully interested in them and gave them the sense of mystery that peeked their interest in him. One of the things he would do is not really answer their questions or just turn their question around back on them. Another thing I learned by watching him was he didn't ask permission he would just say for example come on let's dance as he dragged them out onto the dance floor.

I learned over the years that another problem that a lot of men, me included, would stand there with their hands in their pockets looking bored. Pick up artists make sure they don't look bored and enjoy the atmosphere in the club or bar. Women notice what they are doing long before the Pick up artist would make his move. One key thing that you will have to remember when working on being a pick up artist is you have to have the right mindset, confidence, confidence, confidence. Women pick up on the signals that a confident man expresses.

I asked my friend one evening how he got so good at his game, and he told me what every other guy I have talked to on this subject has told me, practice. I have been told to expect to be rejected several times until I got my game down and that was true. There is no perfect formula to picking up women so all that can be done is the old tried and true method of trial and error. No guy has ever woke up one morning and was immediately a pick up artist they all started somewhere. So don't get discouraged when you try and fail, just pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on to the next girl. There will come a time when you find what works for you and start picking up girls like the pros do.

Now the mindset is just one part of the pick up artist arsenal of tools, there is also the look. You don't go into a bar or club looking for a woman, dressed like you just got off of work. You will want to look your best and smell great. Nothing will turn a woman off faster than body odor. Looking good along with the right mindset can achieve so many things. You will be surprised if you do the right things and be confident in yourself that in no time at all you can be a pick up artist and other guys will be turning to you for tips and ideas on how they can improve their game.