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What You Need to Understand If You're Ever Going to Make Him Fall in Love With You
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So there's a guy you really like, but how do you make him fall in love with you? Do you ever wonder if you've got what it takes? And does it ever seem that men really are from Mars and women from Venus? If that sounds like you, take heart. Men and women may have different emotional styles, but they're the same species and basically want the same things. Once you understand those different emotional styles, you'll have all you need to make him fall in love with you.
UNDERSTANDING MALE EMOTIONS - men have exactly the same emotions as women, they're just not as comfortable talking about them (this is literally true - high emotions make men want to move rather than talk). You need to take that into account before you open a conversation about feelings. Ideally, you need to let your man know that he can talk about his feelings in perfect safety, without being judged or criticized.
BECOME COMFORTABLE WITH SILENCE - sometimes men just can't talk, and that's OK too. Let him know that you're happy to share intimate silence, if that's what he wants.
DEVELOPING THE EMOTIONAL BOND - any relationship worth having is based on an emotional bond. Friendship is absolutely crucial - you're never going to make him fall in love with you if you don't actually like each other. So do all the things you do with your friends. Listen, pay attention, offer support, take a genuine interest in his hopes, dreams and aspirations.
ADMIRATION AND RESPECT - some girls play dumb around men, in the belief that men are somehow threatened by intelligence and wit. This isn't true, except for a few Neanderthal throwbacks you wouldn't want to form a relationship with anyway. So don't be afraid to show him the real you, with your natural intelligence, talent and wit.
DON'T GET TOO INTIMATE TOO QUICKLY - the last thing you want is to be thought of as someone who's only good for a good time. Sex should happen after you get to know each other better, and not before. That way, it will enrich and enhance your relationship, rather than becoming the main focus.
When these aspects are all in place, you're in a good position to make him fall in love with you, without too much extra effort on your part.
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Article Submitted On: November 05, 2009
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