What Not to Do When You're Trying to Win Back Your Love!

Everyone falls in love, what's the difficult part is keeping your love. Has your love moved away from you? Is there a gnawing emptiness and all you want is to have her/him back? Don't mope, all is not lost. You can have her back. But first off, think if you want her back because you truly love her or is it an ego trip? Clarify that and then you can be back on the route to winning the object of your dreams. Its dangerous waters and many make mistakes, so here's what not to do when you're doing it.

1. Don't stalk/follow

Never follow your love around, you both need some space to figure out what went wrong and crowding her will not resolve the issue or win her/him back. It would make your love run farther away.

2. Don't put yourself down

When you call her over and over again worried and in a panic, you're not thinking clearly. Chances are you'll beg, plead and apologize a million times. This is a fatal mistake! For one thing, you're appearing weak and needy in front of her. And this would not make her respect you. Rather she would find you less than a man and just want to get away from you.

3. Sex is not the answer

While you may feel a lot of attraction and have volatile moods, it's not a good idea to jump into bed as soon as you get to being around each other. Be a distant friend, don't blame each other, rather flirt a healthy amount and have your love remember and wanting you bad. Having sex in the before period may drive her away, make her feel manipulated or regret her actions. So wait it out, it will be worth it to be with each other when you finally are together again!

4. Friend zone is unsafe!

The friend zone is a bad place to be in; being a friend during the time of crisis will not make you more desirable to her. Talk to her occasionally, on her when she gives you the green signal that she's okay. But keep it to a minimum. When you're in the friend zone, she is at ease with you. There is no tension, no chemistry and no desire. Keep her hungry and wondering where you are, what you're doing and when you do meet her lavish all your attention so she knows what she's been missing!

If you've made these mistakes it's not too late, get back in the game, be subtle, mysterious and tantalizing. Make her notice how desirable you are and how good it was to be with each other. Soon enough you'll have her back in your arms counting the stars together and having an awesome relationship!

Now listen carefully!

I don't want to scare you, but, your ex is not going to be around forever...They will eventually going to find somebody else and they are going to hook up with them...They are going to fall in love, they are going to have sex...so on and so forth...

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