Is he everything you've been dreaming of and you want to find a way to make him fall in love with you? Do you really think you guys would make a great couple, but you don't know how to get him there? Might he be thinking of just being friends and you need a way to see make him see you as more than just a friend? It can be difficult to make love work out the way we want it to. Either we're getting it from someone we're not interested in or we're simply not getting through to the guy we are interested in. Here's how to eliminate the scum and sweep up the cream of the men out there.
Ideally, you want to start by simply creating a close friendship with him. You're probably scoffing at the idea right this minute and thinking that sex is the best way to get to a guy. Yes, if all you want is a sexual relationship with a guy who's hardly worth your time. But for love to grow, you need to have an emotional connection you just can't get with a sexual relationship.
Bonus; you leave the scum behind and have more time to concentrate on the guy who'll really be special in your life.
Great communication is key and you want to ensure that he's always feeling great about simply being with you. In this you want to include a healthy dose of admiration for him, all while fostering his admiration of you. Don't just be the pretty girl who smiles and has nothing to say for herself. He wants to be proud of you and be able to brag about you to his friends.
You've probably heard girlfriends say how they had a fabulous date with a guy and spent hours talking and talking. This can be great and when done in a relaxed atmosphere, it can be very enlightening. But don't rely simply on this to tell you if this is the guy you really want, nor should you expect that great conversation to have him jumping up and declaring his love for you.
Love takes more time than that and it's only by spending time together that you'll really come to connect in a way that will heighten your emotions. Before you know it, he'll fall in love with you.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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