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What Are the Reasons to End a Relationship?

Being in a relationship is said to be the best thing that can ever happen to someone but it doesn't mean that even if you are not in a healthy environment, you have to stay. When we are filled with doubts and confusions, oftentimes our logic does not work. We get so emotional that's why it's even harder to let go. What are the telltale signs or reasons to end a relationship? When do you finally say you're done?

If there's Physical, Verbal and/or Emotional Abuse

Abusive people are very controlling and they believe that conflict, arguments and emotional outbursts are what a relationship should have in order to grow. They say that abusers can always detect who their next victim is and I believe that. You won't experience abuse if you don't let it in the first place. When someone hurts you physically and emotionally, it simply means that he has some major issues that he has to resolve on his own. You don't have an obligation to help somebody who wouldn't help himself. Being in an abusive relationship is not only dangerous but it also ruins the way you look at yourself. Being physically, verbally or emotionally abused is one of the major reasons to end a relationship. You deserve something better, you owe it to yourself.

If there's a Third Party Involved

Cheating is also one of the reasons to end a relationship. If your partner is cheating on you, it means he does not respect you. People who have been cheated on find it extremely hard to rebuild trust in the relationship. Without trust, a relationship will never survive no matter how strong your love is. You should be in a relationship that nurtures love, respect and honesty. If you want to stay in the relationship because you want revenge, forget about it because you are just hurting yourself more.

You Don't See Him in Your Future

You used to make plans together and you even talked about how many kids you want and now you dread seeing him. You don't see yourself spending the rest of your life with him. When you feel that your partner has suddenly become a stranger then it's time for you to assess your feelings and decide if you want to stay in a relationship that doesn't make you happy anymore.

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