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They say that a bad relationship is a complete waste of time but come to think of it, if you have never experienced being in a troubled relationship, you will never realize the qualities of a good relationship. We often mistake attraction for love but as you mature, you will definitely learn how to separate fantasy from real love.
What are the qualities of a good relationship that you have to look for? Aside from love (which all of us already know), mutual respect is very important. Your partner should respect and accept you for who you are. Keep in mind that a relationship is not meant to change the person for who he really is. A healthy relationship should bring out the best in you. Also, by respect I mean your partner should not yell at you or hit you and say bad words to you and about you. Every individual has the right to be treated with respect and dignity.
Trust is also one of the most important qualities of a good relationship. Without trust, a relationship will not survive no matter how strong the love is. When your partner sees you talking to someone else, does he or she completely lose his cool? Does he or she accuse you of things you didn't do because of jealousy? It's alright to get a jealous sometimes, it's a natural emotion among lovers but how a person reacts when he gets jealous is what matters.
Aside from love, mutual respect and trust, support is also one of the qualities of a good relationship. It's so nice to be with someone who gives you his support all the time whether you want to switch to a new job or as simple as trying to shed off some pounds. I'm fortunate to be with a guy who supports me with whatever road I take. You have to be there for each other in good or bad times.
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