So the break up with none the less pleasant, and the time apart is tearing you up. You think about that man/girl every day and night, usually being frustrated, mad, regrets. Friends of yours have tried setting you up on dates, but they all fall short cause you know your ex is the true one. You have came to the conclusion that no matter what your getting him/her back, and give the relationship one last shot. But you need some moral support and help from friends.

And keep in mind while your thinking about that aftermath of everything your thinking that you wish you could have taken back some thing you said. Your friends agree with you quietly or get you fired up about what has happened, either way its not a good situation. Before you try to win your ex back its best to explain to your friends that you were angry, and you appreciate their support, but that he/she is truly the one you love. Now don't expect your friends to take this the right way. They're going to throw a fit! But they're only doing it because they want to support you either way, but you know deep down the right thing to do.

Now, you need to realize the realistic side of things. Do you want to get back with your ex because you're still in love, or is it because you're just tired of being alone? Are your running lots of thoughts through your head because you're afraid of the unknown? Did one or two just ruin your dating experience? Be truthful with yourself don't let your loneliness get the best of you. If you broke up in the heat of a big argument, that is one thing, you still can get back with your ex.

If he/she is still single, and you still want to pursue getting back, realize that they are going to be the same. She is still the same women; he is still the same man. The problems with the relationship don't simply vanish. If you or your partner isn't committed to talk about the problems you had and solutions to it then it wont be worth it. Start with a clear mind; see if compromises can be reached. If the answer is yes, first thing you should go slowly. Pretend he/she is someone new and remember why you fell in love in the first place. This time, be more aware of the things you don't love and let your partner know that, before things escalate. Most importantly, make sure not to rush things, think with your head and make wise choices you know if it will truly work or not.