James Dobson, one of the chief proponents of unconditional love, believes that all people need it. Dobson declares: "I'm convinced the human spirit craves this kind of unconditional love and experiences something akin to 'soul hunger' when it cannot be achieved." He further declares God's love to be unconditional, the fact being seconded by many more.
Such a love means giving unconditional freedom. Love and freedom are words that can be used interchangeably. The phrase is often used to describe the love in an idealized romantic relationship.
Such love can exist. Suppose for example a boy and a girl are into relationship with an unconditional love to bind them. But where's the binding? Imagine the statement,"I would love you no matter where you go, with whomsoever you make love." Can the relationship be a success in the long run? Such an unconditional love might become a truth then, but won't create a successful relationship. There should be the condition - 'We affect one another by everything we do-so take care!' - only then will the two be able to remain together.
Then, there's the mother's love that remains unconditional. She keeps loving her child without demanding anything in return.
In a brain scan study, Michele Beauregard and colleagues identified areas of the brain that are active during unconditional love, indicating that 'unconditional love is mediated by a distinct neural network relative to that mediating other emotions'. This includes some elements that are involved in romantic or maternal love, as well as brain reward systems.
When I brainstorm a little more, i feel these are the conditions that make LOVE more beautiful. If two people understand that both need each other, then only will they remain together. Unnecessary advantages are sure to creep in, otherwise. Or probably, the two will get bored being together!
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