Nearly every man falls in love at some point or the other in his life and as is the case with anything, we all make mistakes. Has your mistake cost you your wife? Have you gone for the forbidden fruit and lost a perfectly good marriage? Have you walked out on her when she was at her weakest and now she doesn't want you back? Don't lose hope; you can win your ex-wife back.
You're probably thinking you've tried everything, notes, flowers, and gifts, all of it. Let me ask you, is that really all you could come up with. When you decided to get married you shared a spark with her. You both decided to be with each other for better or for worse and now you've lost her. First thing you need to do is give your ex-wife some breathing space. Stalking her relentlessly and sending her 'I am sorry' notes will only keep reminding her of the fact that you lost her trust and hurt her. Don't disappear altogether from her life, but stand back and tell her once that you will be around and that it was a mistake. An admission works way better than an apology. Don't deny it you've been a dog. Let her get the anger and the hurt off her chest. Start Fresh!
Another common mistake we men make is to think that we can promise them anything they want and they'll run back to our arms. Oh no! That's the road to disaster. For one thing you're simply being a door mat and nothing irritates or bores a woman more than a man who has no respect for himself.
Need turns into obsession. Don't follow her around like a love-sick puppy and don't put yourself down and beg her to take you back. A woman will not respect a man who doesn't respect himself. It doesn't appeal to her or turn her on!
Instead focus on re-igniting the desire. Those stolen kisses, those steamy nights, the husky laughter, the sweet nothings and the long lazy days spent in bed together. You can find a million ways to have her remember them once she's over the part where she hates you for having hurt her in the first place. Make her want you and desire you. It could be subtly done through common friends who invite her over and watch a movie you know had special memories for you and her. Or dedicate a song on the radio that you know she will listen to on her way to work. Work the magic, have her remember and soften the hurt so you can ask her for a second chance.
Over and above everything else, respect the woman. Your ex wife is an individual with her own hopes and dreams and values. Show her that you value her immensely with her differences. Walk hand in hand, don't be subservient or domineering, rather be her confidant, her pillar of strength her shoulder to lean on!
Now listen carefully!
I don't want to scare you, but, your ex is not going to be around forever...They will eventually going to find somebody else and they are going to hook up with them...They are going to fall in love, they are going to have sex...so on and so forth...
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