Depending on what broke it up in the first place, you can get an ex girlfriend back ASAP. If the problem was extremely serious, it may take a longer time to repair the situation. However, for the usual relationship problems, a little patience and perseverance is all that is required.

If the breakup was your fault, do not try to dismiss it. Instead, accept what you did. Pushing it aside will only anger your ex-girlfriend. Integrity plays a big role in a relationship, and in a way a woman sees a man. Lying will only worsen everything.

Be a mature adult when trying to contact her. Ask if it would be possible to see her. Perhaps you can suggest a meeting. It does it matter how you make contact, it only matters that you do not try to discuss important issues about your relationship via e-mail, or even a telephone call. Misunderstandings can arise if trying to resolve these problems in these ways. Speaking to each other face-to-face is always the better option. You can read certain body language that just doesn't exist with other means of communication.

A nice restaurant, or coffee house, like beat the right setting for any conversations such as this. Don't try to force the situation or be overconfident, as it may blow up in your face.

Maybe a pleasant gift from the heart can start the ball rolling. Whether you're rich or a regular blue-collar worker, this gift should not be extravagant. It gives such as this will only make her feel as though you're putting a price on love.

Another tip might be to start talking about what lies ahead. Your ex-girlfriend may want to hear that you are planning a future for the both of you. Women like men who are secure, consider the future and are genuine.