How do you convey to a man your feelings of love towards him? How far should you go without scaring him away? How can you turn your new relationship into a lifelong one? Convincing a man that you love him need not be like following a detailed flowchart. If you really want to let a man know you love him, read on.

Don't over-patronize him. Moving in on him too fast or aggressively is bound to scare him away. Men don't like to express their emotions too openly or fluently. This is something you must learn to accept. You can perform small gestures like bringing him lunch to his work every once in a while or even sending him a sweet message. Don't try to build your relationship with him overnight. It's not a good idea to discuss marriage in the early days of your relationship.

Let him set the pace. You can't force a relationship to develop and take shape as fast as you want it to. Take your time and have fun. If he does things like invite you to family events, this is a good sign he that he will soon be ready to move your relationship to the next level. Whatever he does to show his love towards you, it's OK for you to do the same. Simply pay attention to his behavior and this will tell you how fast or slow you may build the romance.

Don't open up too quickly to him. If you want to convince him you truly love him unfold before him slowly. Never attempt to spill your guts all at once. Don't express an undying devotion to him. Guys love to hunt and chase. So if you give your entire self to him all at once, you take the fun out of the chase. You want to make him feel that he won you and you did not surrender too easily.