Do you know what you need to do to win the man of your dreams and earn his love? Do you know how to push his buttons and convince him that you're the only one for him? Are you ready to put in a little extra effort to make your relationship as good as it can be? Men won't fall in love with you just for your good looks. A man might be drawn to you because he finds you physically attractive but how do ensure you tug at his heart strings as well as his underwear elastic? Sometimes you need to earn his love and here are three ways to do exactly that.

Mix Things Up

Men usually take longer to form emotional bonds and women often find themselves waiting for their man to catch up with them. Of course you can't distort time but there is a way around this. Instead of always going to the same places, try to mix things up. For instance, instead of going on one long date, take him to two or three different places in the same night. That way he'll see you in three different settings, making him feel like he knows you better. This is simple psychological trickery and will give the illusion that you've known each other longer.

Comfort

Get to know him as best as you can. If you're going to earn his love you will need to know everything about him. Show him friendship, support and comfort. Let him know that he can lean on you. Men often find it difficult to truly relax around other people and this is something they look for in a partner. If you show him that he can trust you and confide on you he'll repay you in kind.

Earn His Respect

It is important that you earn his respect as well as his love. There are many ways to do this. You could try to wow him with your intelligence, your independence or your sporting prowess, or you could simply try to show him how confident you are. Making him wait a while before entering into a physical relationship is another way to earn his respect and will give you time to build a strong friendship beforehand.

Most of all, you will need to learn patience. Men's hearts cannot be won over in a day, only their bodily organs succumb that quickly. You'll need to work hard to earn his respect, his friendship and his affection before you can earn his love.