Have you and your spouse recently separated and you would like to know how to make up with your spouse? It does not matter what the reason is. Your relationship can be saved if you are dedicated to showing your spouse that you are still the same person that they fell in love with so many years ago.

Many marriages get in trouble because couples become comfortable with each other. You have been with this person for a while and you know everything about them. The mystery is no longer there and there isn't anything to talk about any more. Or maybe you and your spouse have realized that you have grown apart and do not have the same core values that you once believed in. These are a few reasons that many marriages fall apart. But the marriage does not need to end.

Here are few tips that you can use to help you get your spouse back.

• Do not beg them to come back to you. Your spouse has made up his/her mind. Let them go on and see how things will be without you. Running to them, asking for forgiveness will only put you in a position of weakness and you will not want that if your marriage does happen to continue.

• Get out and have some fun. There is no need to sit around the house and wait for you spouse to call you. Get out and met new people. You do not want to be looking for a new love, but get out and mingle. The hope is that your spouse will see that you are not sitting on your hands whining about what might have been. This will start to get your spouse thinking that they may have made a mistake.

• Fill up your schedule. If you spouse calls you, tell him/her that you are busy and can not go out on a date. Make them work in a date in your schedule. This will make them realize that they are in the process of losing you, and that they had better make things right with you.

Before you know it, you may have flowers delivered at your house or work, with a note asking for forgiveness. Score one point for you. Your spouse will now be eating out of your hand.