Getting married does not mean that you and your spouse will have a perfect life together. There is no castle on the hill or a story book ending that reads "They Lived Happily Ever After". Being in a marriage is hard work. And there instances where both the husband and the wife both but heads and disagree on some aspect of the marriage. It is bound to happen in any relationship. But there are ways to work out your problems and save the marriage from collapse.

Here are a few tips that can help you begin to save your marriage.

1. Learn to listen to your spouse. A break down in communication is normally the biggest reason that divorces happen. Listening to each other is the most basic necessity needed to build a strong marriage. If there is no communication, there is no relationship.

2. Commit to the relationship. Do not except that the marriage is over. There is a period of time from the time that the divorce case is filed to when you appear in front of the judge to finalize it. You can use this time to try and rekindle the love, romance and desire that was once there.

3. Get in tuned to your spouse and their needs during this difficult time. This is a good time to get to know you spouse again. Ask your spouse out on a date. Go to lunch and a movie. Take the kids out to the park together. Show your spouse that you are a romantic and a catch that should not be thrown back into the sea.

Following the above steps will help your spouse rethink the divorce.