Are you struggling to make the man of your dreams fall in love? Do you wonder if you are missing some essential knowledge that would make the whole thing a lot easier? Do you feel unlucky in love? There are actually three secrets you must know in order to make a guy fall in love.

Allow your man to set the pace for the relationship. Most men move very slowly because they are afraid of getting stuck with the wrong woman. This probably doesn't sound very romantic, but it's the truth. A man needs to know deep within himself that you are the right woman for him. Give him the time he needs to convince himself that making a commitment to you is the right move. Avoid saying that you love him first. You can hint at it and show him, but let him say it first. Avoid pressuring him into a quick decision. Realize that you really cannot make a guy fall in love any more than you can make him take out the trash. You can only encourage him to do so when he is ready.

Bring out his emotional side. You don't bond with a guy emotionally simply by telling him what you are feeling. You need to invite him to share his feelings and be receptive to the things he has to say. Show him that it is okay for him to let down his guard and be vulnerable with you. Don't criticize, judge or push for more than he's willing to share. As the two of you build a bond of trust, he'll continue to open up and reveal more and more of himself to you.

Become both his friend and his lover. Men are cautious about who they let into their lives long term. You want to be easy for him to be with rather than acting like a high maintenance princess who is never satisfied. The princess mentality is very popular today, but it doesn't usually work very well on men over the long haul.

You can make a guy fall in love if you are willing to slow down, build trust, and be both his friend and lover.