What goes on in a guy's mind when he's on the verge of committing to his girlfriend? How does he eventually make up his mind that you're the one and more importantly how does he keep making you the one and not have an affair?

There are specific questions that go on in a guy's mind that if you know what they are you can make it easy for him to commit to you.

Commitment Question 1 & 2

Is she smart beautiful and a great catch and will she stay that way?

This is really two questions in one because on the one hand he is thinking whether he thinks you're smart and beautiful enough for him- no I'm not talking about model type beauty as that is in the eye of the beholder, but the kind of beauty that makes him go weak at the knees every day.

Then when he's ticked that box- the next question is ' But will you stay that way'?

For him yes you're smart and beautiful now but , after the first few months of marriage, will you stay that way? And what about when you have children and he is really trapped ( not my thinking just some men's) Will you still be smart and beautiful in his eyes then?

If at the beginning of the relationship you show him through your actions that your inner beauty will last he will take a chance on you.

Commitment Question 3

Am I making a mistake by committing to her?

Committing to you or not committing to you has a lot to do with whether he can be absolutely sure he's not making a mistake.

Men who work and provide for their families know that in order to do that they have to commit emotionally and financially to the woman. And he doesn't want to make a fool of himself by giving his all to a woman who wasn't worthy of his devotion in the first place.

No man wants to be made out a fool.

Commitment Question 4

There are so many woman and I'm going to live a long time how can I possibly choose just one?

This is the proverbial- the grass is always greener attitude. But think about it, there is nothing more manly and desirable for a man to know that women still desire him. So to commit to only one woman she has to be special. And the question is whether he will always feel the same about you.

So my suggestion to you ladies is do what you need to do to always make him feel loved and adored and this will no longer be a question in his mind.

Commitment Question 5

Will she try and change me and make me do things I really don't want to do?

For eons women have made it their mission to change their man into something they want him to be- and men know this and it makes them run scared. Because, as much as your guy knows he has failings what he's really looking for is a woman who can still love him despite his failings.

Can you make that you? Because if you learn how to appreciate him now, you will find it easy to over look his foibles and he will deeply appreciate you for it.

These 5 commitment questions flow through the mind of a guy who is giving thought to whether you have what it takes for him to commit to you or not. Now that you know what these commitment questions are, all you need to do is have a plan of making him see these things in you, and you're on your way.