Why is it that some girls are more successful at flirting with men than others? Are they just born like that? Or have they discovered some arcane secret of attraction? The truth is that flirting with men is a skill like any other, and it's something that you can learn and practice, starting today!

1. IT BEGINS WITH A SMILE

A smile is the universal signal of attraction. Make it as dazzling as you possibly can whilst remaining natural (you don't want to look like The Joker). Practice in the mirror if you have to. When you flash your best smile at a man, it shows that you are friendly and approachable, and that he can feel comfortable and confident talking to you.

2. MOVE ON TO THE EYES

Learn the art of eye contact. Too much and you look like a mad woman. Too little and you'll appear nervous, or worse, uninterested. Make brief eye contact, look away with a smile, and look back again. You'll have his attention now!

3. MIRROR AND MATCH

Watch any two people who are deeply involved with each other in some way, and you'll notice they unconsciously mimic each other's posture, body language, and even the way they speak. You can do this deliberately. If the man you're talking to crosses his arms, you can cross yours too, or cross your ankles. If he scratches his nose, scratch your arm. This sends him an unconscious signal that you're just like him - and we like people who are like us. Tip: be subtle about this, or it looks as if you're making fun of him.

4. GROOMING GESTURES

Another great tip for flirting with men is to use what body language gurus call grooming gestures. As he's talking to you, tuck a strand of hair behind your ear, or gently stroke your own neck or the top of your chest. That sends out another unconscious signal, that you're enjoying the attention and making yourself attractive to him as a result.

5. MAKE CONTACT

In the same way, making light physical contact is a powerful signal of attraction. Place your hand on his for a second or two, or gently brush his arm as you talk. Keep it very, very light to begin with.

6. SPEAK SOFTLY

Finally, a tried and tested technique for flirting with men is to lower your voice. A low voice tone is inherently more attractive, and has the added advantage of making him lean in closer to hear you!