Finding out that your boyfriend is cheating on you can be a devastating revelation that can happen in any relationship. And if you think that your boyfriend has changed and is not communicating with you on the same level any more, then you are going to need to do a little investigation to see if your boyfriend is cheating on you.

Here are some signs that he may be giving off that will help you determine if he is cheating on you.

• Has your boyfriend's work schedule has changed to where they are leaving earlier or getting home later than they used to?
• Is he no longer available to you during the times that he used to be?
• Has he started taking showers when he gets home?
• Has he stopped asking you for your advice or opinions?
• Does he delete the history on his cell phone every night?

If your boyfriend is acting out with on or more of these signs, then your relationship is in trouble. The situation is in a state that definitely needs to be addressed. But instead of asking yourself why is he doing this to me. Ask yourself why he had to go to another's arms for his needs.

If he is a perpetual cheater, then the relationship may have been doomed from the start. But if this is a one time offense, your relationship just may need a little help.

Open up the lines of communication and find out why he cheated. Listen to him. Do not finger point and play the blame game. It is a bump in the road, but it can be fixed. Work with him to reignite the spark that was once there.