You miss her. The sound of her voice. The smell of her perfume. You are heart-sick for her and you want her back! Find a creative way to apologize. Send her flowers asking her to, Bee Mine Again. Does she have a dog? Send her a cute chew toy, with a note asking her to 'let you out of the doghouse.' There are likely many hard feelings on both sides. Take this opportunity to be the first to apologize and let her decide her next move.

The next step is the more difficult. You must stop all contact. You have opened the door with your apology it is her turn to decide to walk through it. This advice is nothing close to want you want to do. Crawl on broken glass, call her every five minutes to apologize. You must resist these irrational acts. She will not appreciate a guy who is begging for her to return. Or one who claims, he is nothing without her, you may convince her she is right!

Although it is difficult to believe, she will appreciate your providing her space and time to clear her thoughts and think about your relationship. Many men are just too insecure to allow her to make her own decision. This is not you! You are going to find ways to enjoy this time apart from your girl!

Now the problem is, how do you occupy your time and thoughts? Re-new your interests in activities you were a part of before you became involved in a relationship. Go out and have a beer with your buddies. Avoid bad-mouthing your ex. Although this may be tempting, it is safer to stay off this topic altogether. Start a new hobby. Maybe you are one of those guys who have always loved ships in a bottle now is the time to get started! Local activities and events are only a click away. Join a new group. Find new friends who share your interests! Did she hate your hunting or fishing? Now is the time to go, relax, and enjoy yourself!

She will wonder what happened to you. She will start to ask her girlfriends if they have heard anything about you. She will want to know what could possibly be more interesting than her! You will be surprised and happy to find that she will come looking to find a guy who is even more fun to be around, you!