The Law of Attraction and Relationships

It is difficult to have successful relationships with others if you don't have a good one with yourself because the most important relationship you can ever have is the one you have with you.

Over time, there have been many people, circumstances and events that have contributed to how you see yourself - who you think you are - and over time you have come to believe in what other people think of you, allowed the circumstances and events to endorse in your own mind and reconfirm who other people think you are.

Most people are quick to focus on what is not good about them and so unconsciously you focus on what other people think of you and through you attention to it you become highly emotionally in tuned to it by the Law of Attraction more of what you are focusing on is being brought into your life experience.

More often than not people talk to me about their relationship worries, about being ignored, about being lonely, about being fearful, about a long, long list of things. And when people tell their story they tell it with such passion, with such vigour, with such details that you can feel their pain and despair as you listen.

And they haven't realised that by telling this story the way it is being told that the Law of Attraction MUST bring more circumstances, events and people into their life experience that are similar in nature. They haven't realised the correlation between what they are thinking and feeling and what is manifesting into their life experience.

You see the Law of Attraction says this -that which is like unto itself is drawn.

If you truly want to make a change in your relationship for the better you have to stop telling that story. I realise this is a difficult thing to do at first because you have been telling this story for such a long time - but if you really take a look at what is happening to you when you are telling it - if you notice that you are not feeling good - then you would stop. There is no benefit in it for you in telling a bad feeling story - it will only bring you more pain, more misery and more circumstances or events that will feel bad to you.

When you can begin to realise WHO YOU REALLY are, you will find great power and freedom. Because who you really are - is someone most powerful, most loving, very successful and someone great - I don't need to know you to know that, that statement is true. Your purpose here is much more than you realise...but once you do great relations are everywhere to be seen.

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Author Bio: Gillian has over 20 years experience in HELPING OTHERS and uses Emotional Freedom Technique and the Law of Attraction in her practice. For Gillian it's all about helping people 'Gain Back Their Lives'.

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