The Heart, The Mind, The Money

The heart wants what the heart wants. No great news there, right? A line not only in just about every movie or TV show around theses days, but in fact it has become such a way of life that there is no room sometimes for the mind. To make it even more interesting, both the heart and the mind want the same thing: money.

Talk about your vicious circle, remember the saying that; where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Well, when the heart and the mind are in a constant struggle to control your life, you lose. You don't lose the war...you just lose all the battles! The only real money in your life is that inheritance coming your way right!

How does one (or both) conquer this little dilemma in a relationship?

Well for sure it is not wearing your heart on your sleeve. You have to stand up, you have to not only make a decision, you have to make or choose a plan of action that is by nature the opposite of what seems to make sense to you. Mind over matter as it were...when it comes to the heart and money you have no mind...so therefore it doesn't matter.

Now that is just a very wrong way of thinking. The heart wants what the heart wants get a lot of people in a lot of different kinds trouble most of the time.

You would think to yourself..."that's illogical, how can that be..."you have to use your mind to make sense of the things you want out of this life.

Well, bucko...you just keep right on thinking that way.

In fact it's pretty amazing that you've made it this far with that kind of thinking. The mind does not obey or control the heart and most certainly the heart could care less what the mind cares about. An aha moment for you eh.

Money controls the dynamic duo of your body. And the third man out (money) is always the villain in the relationship. The heart, the mind and the money should be made into a movie. It would be full of charm, love and mystery as well as suspense, thrills and danger. But no movie, based on real life or not is ever complete if it doesn't at least make you smile just a little bit...yep, you have to have some humor in your life to make things work. My spousal unit keeps our friends and family in stitches by telling them what a joke I am as she laughs all the way to the bank with my paycheck! Hey, money talks.

Well since I have discovered the Empower Network, at least now the heart, the mind and the money are on the same page of the new script in our relationship. It could be the same for you and yours if you're indeed looking for a way to light up the big screen in your marriage and have all the thrills, spills and adventure that you have ever dreamed about and still come out of life's theater with a happy ending, then consider this my invitation for you to purchase a ticket to what your wonderful life could be.

The heart, the mind, the money can be arranged in any order you need to survive, but you need to pay (no pun intended) special attention to each in relation to how you are using them and how or what your ultimate desire in your marriage and family life is to be. You might even call it mind power.

A happy heart...a healthy mind...a secure financial future? This more than just mind games. You have a lot to consider and just as much more outside of your sphere of influence that will affect your whole household.

Money can't buy happiness, the heart can't heal itself without the mind and the mind can't exist without the heart.

Like baking a cake. All the ingredients are there and you don't even have to be a master chef to combine them to make the cake (or whatever your hopes dreams and desires are that you're making). Sure the order and placement is important to the overall process, but it's more important that after you collect the ingredients you need, that you actually follow the recipe...the directions that are guaranteed to get you where you want to go, to be able to have your cake and eat it too!

A Friend in Business...and Life...Always.

-Lon-