"Completion is to make something whole by including every necessary piece or everything that is wanted. Completion is to carry out or accomplish something." -Webster
This completion series is due to the recognition of why New Year's Resolutions (in particular) are doomed from the beginning. Like when you try to start a new diet on January 1st and it lasts nearly all the way through January 2nd. One great reason these new desires for change fail is because people are trying to start a New Year while dragging the last year around with them. In all honesty, many of us are dragging the last 15 years around with us. The baggage just gets heavier and heavier.
Are you carrying these last 15 years worth of baggage into your relationships as well? If you had a 10-year relationship, do you have 5 years worth of with-held expressions that have built up in that relationship that is keeping it from being a complete? What unfinished business do you need to take care of?
I've seen so many people who have the following regular process about New Years. They go out on New Years Eve, get drunk, rub their hands together and say, "Well, I'm glad that last year is over!" Then they move on completely expecting their new goals to just fall into line magically.
This year, let's make a better plan. If you want a new house, you don't just go and build it anywhere, you first get very clear where you want to be, and then you clear the land. If you want new shoes, the fastest way to get them and actually enjoy them to the fullest is if you clear a space for them before you get them. You get rid of old ones that no longer serve you well. In other words, you have to move stuff out of the way.
Take a look at what you have with you right now in your personal space. What do you take with you wherever you go? Look in your wallet, or purse, or coat that you are wearing. Are they cleaned out? What is undone, what is incomplete? Did you eat regular meals today or were some of them left out? What do you have on right now? Should it have been discarded long before now due to stains or missing buttons, etc? Are there any phone calls that you really needed to make today but put off? How about the vehicle you were driving today, is it clean or disorderly?
Make a list of things that are incomplete as of right now about today. What did you want to do that didn't get done? What is incomplete?
Take a pen and paper and begin to make a list of things that you know needed to be done today that you did not complete. Next to each item on your list, write down an essential action step to completing that item. Your job for tomorrow is to see how many of those action steps you can take. This is actually a tremendously rewarding exercise. As you cross items off your list, you will immediately notice a change within yourself as you are beginning to free up stored energy that has been waiting to complete these items!
As a bonus, you will find that many of the items on your list, magically dissolve. As one thing disappears, often another thing comes to completion.
In summary, we carry the weight of unfinished items with us into everything we do and everywhere we go. By cleaning up old patterns and putting things into motion, we begin to release new energy and find new aliveness, thus allowing us to take on new projects with more heartfelt enthusiasm. Begin making your list today of things that are incomplete and take the time to appreciate your accomplishments after each and every completion. Literally do "the happy dance" every time you are able to cross something off your list! We would love to hear about your experience with your completions and invite you to join us for free at http://www.megansillito.com to share your success with us!
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