The Blended Female Orgasm

Have you ever heard of a blended orgasm? This is when you climax via clitoral stimulation AND g-spot stimulation. Yes, all at the same time. If you've never even heard about blended climaxes then listen up because you know what? You only have one life to live, so might as well squeeze out as much pleasure as you possible can, right?

Blended Orgasms Defined

As indicated above, a combi-climax occurs when you are able to 'come' via simultaneous clitoral and g-spot stimulation. For those who don't know what or where the g-spot is, here's a few basic information. The g-spot or the Grafenberg spot is a pleasure zone situated about 2-3 inches up your vaginal wall. Its size, when aroused, can be anywhere from a small dime to a large quarter. Texture-wise, it's a bit spongy and rough. Touch your tongue to the ceiling of your mouth. This texture resembles your g-spot a lot.

Before you attempt a Blended O, it's best if you're able to at least arouse yourself via your c-spot, and then via your g-spot (i.e., non-concurrently). After you master these independent moves, only then is the time to move on to combi-climaxes.

Doing It Alone

Although experimenting with each others bodies is great fun, it may be a better idea to first try blended orgasms alone. This way, when the two of you are finally together in bed, you are better able to guide him as to how to stimulate you. After all, with such a delicate issue (and such delicate parts of your body involved), it's best that no 'accidents' occur. Besides, too much blended orgasm trial and error can kill the sex mood.

Start by finding a nice and relaxing space for yourself. Ensure that you will not be disturbed for a while as this can take some time. Lie back on your bed, think erotic thoughts or maybe even watch and adult movie to start to get your juices flowing. When aroused, go ahead and play with your c-spot. Bring yourself to a frenzy but don't make yourself climax.

When you're all pumped up, insert a finger inside you, palm up. Try to feel for that slight, rough bump I mentioned above. Don't worry; you will know when you're near it because waves of pleasure will start to come over you. As you stimulate your g-spot, you may realize that you need to pee badly. This is just because the g-spot is situated near your bladder. Just ride this peeing feeling out and it will soon pass.

It probably won't take you long to stimulate your g-spot to feel the stirrings of an orgasm. Once you feel this, start c-spot stimulation immediately. Now, close your eyes, free your mind, and let the mind-blowing pleasures of a blended orgasm come over you!

Doing It With Your Lover

Now that you know how to bring yourself to double-ended climax, it's time to bring your lover into the equation. (Besides, after experiencing one, I doubt if you can wait long to have another one!) So engage in heavy foreplay with your lover and then move onto c-spot stimulation. You can either masturbate in front of him, ask him to finger play you down there or ask for some oral action.

As you feel yourself getting hotter and hotter, ask your lover to penetrate you. As he thrusts, slightly lift off your hips from the mattress so that his penis is in perfect alignment with your g-spot. When you feel that you can't take it anymore, reach down and play with your clitoris. (Better yet, ask him to do it!) From here on, there's nothing else left to do but ride the tidal wave of pleasure that engulfs your body.

Doing It Via Different Sex Positions

You'll soon find that there are more ways than one to blended orgasm bliss. And besides, more than have the fun and thrill is trying the moves below!

Go on all fours. The doggie-style position is one of the best ways to get a blended orgasm. You see as he enters you from behind, and because your body is instinctively 'arched' so that your rear is tilted upwards, you lover's penis is perfectly poised to hit and rub your g-spot with each thrust. From here, it's simply a matter of using one of your hands to stimulate your c-spot! Of course, you can also grab one of your lover's hands and guide it to your clitoris.

Try reverse cowgirl. Woman on top is a GREAT position, isn't it? You get to control a lot of things while you're in that position: depth, speed, pressure, etc. So why not try this twist? Try woman on top in reverse (i.e., facing his feet instead of his face.)

This way, while his penis stimulates your g-spot (and remember, you get to control movement here so it's wonderful that you can twist and rub the way you want to!), you can easily reach down and stimulate your c-spot.

Why settle for one type of climax, when you can have two? Try the above tips so you don't miss out.

My name Jessica Perez and I teach women the step-by-step techniques on how to give yourself an orgasm.

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