If you are reading this, I am assuming that the relationship you are in is not making you happy, but you aren't willing or ready to walk away. You simply need some relationship problem advice to help fix things.

The first thing we need to talk about is communication. Are you clear about what the problems are, not just yours but your partners, and are you able to communicate those problems clearly without fighting about it. Both of you need to be able to communicate what you are feeling and thinking and what you are lacking in the relationship clearly. Most importantly, you need to come up with a strategy for solving those problems together as a team.

The second thing you need to do is try and put yourself in your partners shoes. You have to be able to empathize with their situation as well. What are they thinking and feeling and going through. It's possible that something as simple as stress at a job that gets carried home that can be the problem. This is one of the hardest things for people to understand when it comes to relationship problem advice. They only want to express their side of the story and want the other person to listen. They don't want to take the time to understand where their partner is coming from as well. But you must.

There is no problem in any relationship that can't be fixed, if both parties are willing to do the work. The greatest of all relationship problem advice is to learn to listen. God gave us two ears and one mouth so that we would listen more than we talk. If you can't communicate what you are thinking and feeling and what the problems are, and come together to work on them, then you are doomed. Communicate, and communicate clearly and often with one another. Let each other know where you stand and what is going on and where you each think you are in terms of progress. This is the only relationship problem advice you really need. Nothing will ever get accomplished if you aren't open, honest, and able to communicate with one another.