You're in no doubt that you want to make a guy fall in love with you, but can you be sure you're going about it in the right way? Are you driving him crazy in love, or just driving him crazy? Are there rules of love you should be following? Well, yes there are, and this article will show you the exact three things you should be doing to make a guy fall in love with you for keeps!

Now, when it comes to love, men can seem like indecisive creatures. The truth is, they're slaves to their biology, and often misread sexual attraction as love. It isn't their fault, necessarily, they just need to be educated - and the good news is, that when they're really in love they know it just as certainly as women do. So it's your job to educate him.

That means abandoning the idea of luring him into a relationship with sex. It might seem like a quick win, but it won't last. The attraction will inevitably wane and he'll be off looking for the next available one-night love affair. So you need to think beyond that if you want to make a guy fall in love, not just fall into your bed.

1. STOP TRYING

Sounds nonsensical? Not at all. Men are very attuned to desperation, and if you come across as someone who wants a husband and father for your children after ten minutes of conversation, he'll suddenly remember an urgent appointment elsewhere. And no, he won't call you. Ever. So, you need to relax, show some interest, let him know you're there when he wants to come around, and let nature take its course. Men are basically hunters, and you've just shown him where the prime game is.

2. MATCH HIS PACE

When it comes to love, women are hares and men are most definitely tortoises. This is related to the last point. Trying to force the pace of a relationship will kill it quicker than anything, so you need to let it to develop at a pace he's comfortable with. As the relationship picks up speed, as it inevitably will, you can start taking the lead a little bit more, if you follow the next tip.

3. SHOW HIM SOME MAGIC

Stir up some good feelings in your man. Listen to him so that you know the things he wants to hear, and then say them. Take him places he likes to be, so that you become part of those places. Support him and make him feel like the centre of the universe. Encourage his every dream, wish
and aspiration.

These three approaches are tried and tested ways to make a guy fall in love - so what are you waiting for?