•    First things first, there is no denying the fact that what you look like will contribute a lot to the pleasure she is getting in bed. That is not to say that you should be a George Clooney lookalike! It simply means that you should use the tools you have at hand to the best of your potential.

•    There are basically four essentials you have to do in order to secure the maximum pleasures for your woman. The first is you should get to know her body through an initial massage. This will guide you on her pleasure spots and erotic zones. Next, you should always ask for guidance. Let her teach you what pleasures her the most. Thirdly, you should observe what she is enjoying in bed and learn from that. Lastly, you should know what her scale of arousal is. This will tell you when she is about to peak. Follow these basic steps and you are on your way.

•    A massage - try exploring her sensitive areas. The back of her neck, her ears and the inner thighs. This will open her up to you and them you can go on to more aggressive lovemaking.

•    Always ask her what she likes. Instead of going to a sexologist in order to understand what she needs in bed, let her be your guide. It is much more fruitful and fun too!

•    Learn to understand the signals she is sending you. Women do not like the same thing endlessly. She may want a soft and gentle caress at some times and wild sex at others. Learn to take your cues from her behavior. If she caresses you gently, make it soft. If she grabs you with her hands, you can try a more aggressive stance.

Try out these easy steps and you will be an expert in women's pleasure!