Are you asking yourself "should I stay in my marriage"?

If yes then you've probably got good reason, especially if you're not really happy. It's a tough decision to make. Plenty of people wonder this as well every day.

In fact, not long ago I was wondering the exact same thing. My marriage was chaotic and unhappy for years and years. I wondered if I should stay in my marriage for anymore years. Imagine that. It was hard, so believe me I can understand what you're going through.

I Was Asking Should I Stay in My Marriage but Making a Huge Mistake

It felt very dark and hopeless for a time there. Sort of like there was no light at the end of the tunnel!

Sound familiar?

I realized that I was making one huge mistake and fixing that mistake was one of the best things that I've ever done. I'm not saying that it totally turned my marriage around and we walked into the sunset together. Not at all.

But it was the beginning to me being able to stop asking should I stay in my marriage.

Here's What I Did, and it Almost Sounds Too Simple.

You see, I'm a talker and figure outter type of person. I always wanted to try and fix my marriage by trying to talk about all of our problems. That just made all of our problems worse and amplified.

It's like putting a spotlight on it and made our problems bigger. Made them seem insurmountable.

Do your marriage problems seem insurmountable now?

That may be why. Stop talking about your darn problems and start focusing on having fun together and actually enjoying each other again.

This will be a great beginning step to whether or not you keep wondering to yourself should I stay in my marriage.