Is sexual chemistry missing from your relationship? If you are always longing for something you don't have, don't beat yourself up. Wanting this connection is both natural and normal.

1. Chemistry bypasses the brain. It is not about what you think but what you feel.

• Ahhh chemistry.....You can't think your way to chemistry.
• No matter how much money he has (BIG SMILE), without chemistry, you will always feel the lack.
• Chemistry is simply the first step in the process of getting to know another person. It is a signal that says, "This is worth another look".

2. Chemistry is effortless - "Trying" is hard work.

• "Trying" to feel chemistry is impossible - either it is there or it is not.
• We are hard-wired for chemistry. It is in our genetic coding and we need to pay attention.

3. Its absence will always leave you feeling empty and wanting.

• Have you ever wondered how you know you are not "in love", even when you admit to never having been in love? How do you know what love is, what it feels like - never having had it?
• Love is our true nature, our home base. We know what that feels like the same way we know what chemistry feels like. If only for the moment, the connection makes us feel complete.

4. Chemistry makes you soft, forgiving.

• Without chemistry, how can you make-up, how can you forgive and feel soft?
• Life has it challenges and regardless of how connected you are with your partner, we all have moments when we can't stand the other person. Chemistry is force that re-connects us - that makes us want to re-connect

5. It is the glue that holds it all together.

• Chemistry is about feeling right rather than being right.
• Chemistry is joyful and creates a bond that connects.