Unfortunately there is no one magical sex guide for couples and often times these so called guides do not give you the information want you want or need. A sex guide is there to help you improve and better your sex life and there are a three things you need to be good at or comfortable with in order to have a good sex life.

Communication
Time and time again you will run across this all important word and it really is that important. Proper communication skills are what allows you to let your partner know what feels good and what does not. You need to be able to tell your partner what interests you, what turns you on and what you are interested in trying. Without proper communication any sex guide for couples will turn into another paperweight.

Acceptance
Everyone really needs to learn to accept and love their bodies. This is crucial when it comes to having a fulfilling and happy sex life. If you are not happy and don't love your own body you will never be able to open up and let your partner love your body. Accept and be proud of who you are. Loving yourself first will allow you to let your partner fully love you as well.

Relaxation
Being relaxed around your partner will go a long way in broadening and improving your sex life. If you don't know how to relax then don't waste time with a sex guide for couples. Learn how to let go and don't worry about your sexual performance too much. By letting yourself relax and be in the moment your sexual performance will take care of itself. Women find it much easier to achieve orgasm if they are able to relax and enjoy the moment with their partner.