There's a lot of negative sex talk and relationship confusion going around within the 'women over 50 group'. When lust starts fading away, complacency sets in. And the next step is a full blown 'I don't care' attitude. Obviously this is a place where you don't want to stay.

And then there are women who have leaped from sexual depression into an exciting, sensual life of their own creation...with revved up libido as a side order.

Don't be a victim of our culture's expectations of aging. You can enjoy the magnificence
of intimate relationships for the next 30 years or more!

How to Enjoy Your Bonus Years at Your Full Sensual Potential:

The only solution: you need to recharge. So, take time for yourself and try these 7 ways to sensual pleasure and you'll see: it's like continuous foreplay!

LEARN TO TEASE AGAIN: Surely you remember how to do this. Make an innuendo and then back off. Just a little. Women have been masters of this art for centuries. It's in our DNA. Remember: just the act of teasing is the same as 'teasing yourself'. That's how to get the excitement going. The TEASE is powerful and can be better than physical sex.

TREASURE AROMAS:Our 'smell memory' is more acute than our other senses. You know a rose by smell, even without seeing it. We love scented candles, the hint of a luxurious perfume and most of all we're attracted to the familiar scent of our lover's warm neck while cuddling in bed. Special blends of essential oils can help give you that extra 'zip' or a calming effect when used in a diffuser, candle or mist. Savor the smell.

EYE TOUCH: Your eyes have feeling. Just look at a photo of your pet, grandchildren or someone you love. Now, look your man in the eye and say 'I Love You'. Certainly the feeling is warm and deep compared to shouting the same words from across the room. Don't just 'see' with your eyes. FEEL with your eyes. This is why the long gaze of flirting is so enticing.

YOUR SONG: A sharp, demanding voice will never rev-up your libido. This goes both ways. Speak kindly and softly. YOU start the conversation. Ask "how was your day?" Or "how do you feel today? I feel great!" Even your own affirmation will do wonders for your own feelings and desire.

EMBRACE THE NOW: Caress, hug, kiss, lick, stroke, pat...touching throughout the day keeps the coals smoldering. This is the easiest way to make a 'connection' with your lover and your own sensual side. Most couples touch only in the bedroom and then expect the fire to start, like turning on a stove. Nope! Doesn't work that way.

THE TEMPTRESS: Speak to each other. Be kind and be considerate. Remember, what you give is what you get. AND when the time is right, tantalize and tease with sensual words, a woman's skill. So give yourself a seductive refresher course. You'll be surprised how this foreplay affects YOUR sexual desire.

BODY LANGUAGE: Touch yourself in a seductive way, wink, stare, moisten your lips... in public! No one will notice but you'll feel a little dangerous. This is like seducing yourself. Remember: your mind is a woman's sensual organ. Don't be surprised if you get that 'tingling' feeling. Try it, it works!