Today I would like to talk about building sexual chemistry and how desperation can kill excitement and pent up sexual tension. A common mistake that many guys make which coincidentally repels women from the desired effect they want to have is that guys are all too eager to escalate to sex before any kind of anticipation is created. As guys we tend to have one-track minds when it comes to females and all that leads up to sex is just the obligatory hoopla of dating and listening to her life stories. Well, I have some shocking news for you. Great sex starts way before you get her into bed. You see women thrive on a combination of two things, 1) anticipation and 2) (sexual) tension. During the initial phases of getting to know her better and enjoying time spent together on those first few dates hopefully if you've done your job well you'll have given her a lot to think about.

The reason for guys being so eager to get women into the bedroom so fast and skipping or trying to skip the necessary steps to making a woman feel a powerful connection to you, is that guys have a limiting belief that sex is "getting lucky". To think that bromide is true is allowing women to hold a monopoly over you. Women like a man to take control rather than throw a guy a bone here and there to cater to her whims. If you don't spend time exploring a woman's mind and learn how to seduce her by teasing her into making the moves on you then you'll be missing out on the potential level of devotion sexually and spiritually she has for you.

The solution to this problem is simple. Relax, take your time and allow sexual chemistry to build by showing sexual interest toward her gradually through your body language, intentional and deliberate glances, sensual and affectionate touching and allowing her to become comfortable with you in close proximity to her. You can anchor positive emotions in her by using touch to emphasize words you want her to hear and anchor feelings of a powerful connection with you by touching, holding and kissing her at times that her excitement is heightened which will build a strong and lasting chemistry.

A master of seduction knows how to seduce women. He knows that seducing women is a seduction of her mind. Stimulating and provoking emotions in her head so when you aren't together she should be thinking about you and as these feelings manifest her attraction toward you will become more powerful and long-lasting as she will feel a superior attraction to you which she is likely to of never felt before for any other guy.

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Best Wishes,

Eros