If your marriage is on the verge of falling apart, you can feel like there is nothing left to do to save the relationship. After all, you have talked and talked until you are blue. But have you really done all you can do? Sometimes actions speak louder than words and a change in attitude from the negative to the positive can make a world of difference in your marriage as well.

You have heard it many times before but communication is very important in any marriage. However, communication does not always need to be verbal. There are many other ways to communicate such as through your actions.

Your spouse needs to know that you love and care for him or her. You can of course say it a thousand times a day but if your actions do not show love, will your words be believable? The things you can do to show your spouse how much he or she is loved are numerous and can range from the smallest little act of kindness to something grand. Some of the ways you can show your love are:

* A quick hug or kiss
* Reach out and rub an arm or shoulder as you pass through a room
* Look into your partner's eyes and really listen when he or she is speaking
* Do a chore for your spouse that he or she normally does
* Put a little "I love you" note in his briefcase or her purse.
* Get a small gift (a chocolate bar normally works well for women)

Of course, there are so many other things you can do, so use your imagination. You can probably come up with a huge list!

Your attitude will play a large part in your relationship as well. If you are generally negative about everything, you will have negative experiences. Look for the good and positive in your spouse and marriage. Most people are drawn to others who have a positive outlook on life, yet end to want to stay away from those who are negative all the time.

Now, there are times when just your actions and attitude are not enough to save your marriage, such as infidelity, abuse and addictions. However, there is still a help available, even in these cases.