If you think your marriage is ending, the first thing I have to say is that I feel for you since I have been in your shoes some time ago. It is indeed one of the most devastating situations one can be in an psychologists say it's one of the most damaging feelings for human psychology.

However, do not lose hope as I saved my marriage from what looked to be a totally hopeless situation. And I firmly believe that this can be achieved in any marriage out there. So listen to me closely now.

Your number one enemy that is working against your marriage is yourself at the moment. When in this situation, it's unfortunately very easy to go wild with desperation. It's very easy to fall into a situation in which you can think of nothing to do and nowhere to turn to help you. In this case you turn to yourself and allow your emotions to overtake your brain and rationality, and your emotions make you do all the wrong things in turn. Such wrong things are begging, pleading, crying etc. sort of things.

This is why the number one marriage saver is actually being able to stay calm in the middle of this situation. To save your marriage, you need well considered actions. You need to think before your every move, since your spouse is fed up with you and you need to act very carefully. Looking for a quick fix for your marriage won't do the trick (begging is looking for a quick solution) as knee-jerk reactions can never do it and will end up making everything worse.

To save a marriage, you need to go against your emotions and intuitions which are telling you to do the wrong things, and stay calm.