It is hard to commit to someone we love.

Yes, with difficulty of putting into actions the words we promise, there are many hindrances that could put us in trouble, in dilemma or what you may call it. Here are reasons why oftentimes we encounter problems when proving our commitment to someone.

1. Unrealistic expectations

Sometimes, we do not really know what we can give to the relationship. What are the things we can sacrifice just to prioritize our partner, what things to ignore just to put premium on the relationship, whatever. Yes, we can not really give what we do not possess. If we are not that 100% in love with someone, we tend to pretend. And, this is unproductive to us, fooling ourselves and our partners as well.

2. Too much ado about nothing

Yes, never a chance is good to pretend we treasure a relationship without even knowing the basics. Respecting the one we love is vital to have the relationship lasting and meaningful. Sans putting premium on the essence of respect, etc. and letting our immaturity, selfishness and the like gets in the way towards healthy relationship, chances are, someone wants to get out of the relationship looking for a better partner, etc.

3. Perfect relationship is a dream

There is no perfect relationship, nor perfect lovers, so what do you expect, right? There are always problems that may crop up no matter how we secure ourselves from outside factors. Yes, intrigues and other things can give us issues to solve or accept. What if one is not ready to handle delicate issues and tend to blow it, instead of handling it well?

4. Humans err

Every one involves in a relationship must accept the fact that he tends to make mistakes when handling unexpected problems, be it the result of inaction or what. Forgiving heart is key. Never a man who knows not the essence of " forgive-and-forget " thing can say that he is giving his all to the relationship. Yes, with warts and all, we need to really exert effort just to give substance to our promise of loving the person no matter what.

There you have. It takes practice to give our all to a relationship. Who knows the next time you are into someone you might be good enough to show it.

Have a healthy relationship by being real, never pretend.