Has your ex boyfriend or girlfriend (or husband or wife) left you recently and you want (or should I say, need) to get them back? Is it your dream to be with them for Valentine's Day this year? If so then I must tell you that you don't have much time to spare. You need to start right now.

Starting doing what you may be asking? You need to start to "pull your ex back" by using "mind control" techniques which force your ex- to come back to you (no matter what you did to push them away in the first place.)

The key to getting your ex- back is to make them curious about what you are up to. Yes, you read that correctly: Curious. Not jealous. There's a difference and if you make a mistake and do it wrong (by being too obvious in trying to make your ex- jealous) then you'll actually push them even farther away.

And you definitely don't want to go the smothering "I love you so much, I need you back" route. That never works. At best you are going to make them feel sorry for you (but not so sorry that they come back to you.) At worst you are going to make them think that you are a total loser. You are going to make them wonder why they were with you in the first place. Never go the "I'll do anything to win you back route."

If you are going to pull your ex- back then you need to contact your ex- in a very particular way in order to make them interested in what you are up to. That initial interest is the first step to you spending Valentine's day with your ex- this year.