Potty training can feel like a daunting task, especially when it seems to be frowned upon if your child isn't out of their nappy by the time they are 1! We all want our children out of diapers as soon as possible and stress if they are getting to an age where they really should be trained. But why should they be?
One of the best things you can hold in your mind when it comes to children is that every child is different. Every child will reach developmental milestones at different paces. This can also include potty training. Some children will feel socially and emotionally ready earlier while others may take their sweet time! This is nothing to worry about though and if you want a struggle on your hands then go against your child's wishes. Otherwise try to take cues from them.
If however, you need to get your child ready to potty train quickly, despite having been patient there are some things you can try to do. First get rid of the diapers including the pull up kind. The best thing to do is let your child be naked or to wear little panties. If your child can let you know they need to go then this is a sign they are ready but if they are socially disinclined to use the potty then you may have a hard time getting them to do so. Taking away their nappy may help and does in most cases, but not always. Generally they will not want to feel wet and this will encourage them to use the toilet. If they are naked it will help them be more aware of their bodily functions. There will be accidents but don't punish or get upset at your child for them - that isn't fair to them and won't help them train.
My son trained himself at 2 years old and I didn't have to do anything. One day he just decided he wanted to use the toilet. This was great for me and now that he is nearly 3 and completely trained EVEN at night. I didn't force him or pressurize him and I think this might be key to it. He also went to the toilet with his dad most mornings and has always followed me into the bathroom and this exposure has let him see this is what adults do. Kids naturally want to follow and copy their parents so letting them see you use the toilet is important. My son actually didn't want to use the potty at all, he wanted to use the toilet. He would use the potty only when we weren't in the house.
The key to success though is not just about going with your child's development and their desires. You also need to be consistent. Once your child is ready, don't use diapers or pull ups because it is more convenient for example when you go out in the car. Accidents are going to happen but if you use pull ups in situations where more happen you can confuse your child and they may just become comfortable with using the diaper despite having shown interest to train.
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